Why he block me for no reason?

[tiarakitty]

I’ve met this guy, “Al” from Tinder. Knowing that Tinder is a hook-up app, I was not surprised and agreeable to going back to his place after spending 3 hours talking in the restaurant (chemistry!). That night, I told him that it was so lovely and thank him for that which he replied the same!

 

Few days, later he started texting me Everyday... both of us do initiate the texting (more of him though) and proceeded to meet up at his place for dinner and we had sex again! After that he did text me again but eventually not sure why the texting stops.

 

A month later, I’ve changed my profile picture which he suddenly texted me to compliment me! As we already had good chemistry, we decided to meet up at his place for dinner. The whole night was so good and sex was exceptionally amazing this time round (he complimented me). As always I thank him for the lovely night and it was nice catching up again.

 

We didn’t text until few days later - he texted me saying “how’s your Friday?” and sent a picture of his beer - to which I replied “oh you’re drinking and thinking of me? ”. He said “a Friend asked me about my week and I thought of you because you’re part of my Monday” so we proceeded texting here and there and eventually stops.

 

On Monday, I realised he BLOCKED me everywhere and I’m confused. It was good chemistry and I wish that it’s a pity that we lose that connection. What makes a guy resorted to blocking a girl on WhatsApp and iMessage? If he doesn’t like me why wouldn’t he just ignore me? Why blocked? Hahaha Obviously I won’t go after a guy who blocked me but somewhat need my own closure.

 

 

 

Just in case our last texting was him asking what i was doing, and i said that I'm studying for my upcoming exams (which he knows on our first date that im a student studying for my masters) so.... what's the trigger, men?!!?!

[ExpatInItaly]

He probably got back together with his girlfriend.

[Chilli]

No idea but it sure doesn't read like you did anything to cause it.

Maybe an ex reappeared or something.

[sunsout2018]

Something probably has changed for him. How do you know he’s blocked you and not deleted his profile? I’ve never used tinder so don’t know now it’s works!

[d0nnivain]

He may have been cheating on someone else with you & that person demanded you be blocked.

 

Just because you don't know the reason he blocked you doesn't mean he didn't have one.

 

Regardless you now know where you stand -- on the outside. Move along to the next person.

[Mr. Lucky]

He may have been cheating on someone else with you & that person demanded you be blocked.

 

Great - and cynical - minds think alike.

 

tiarakitty, I'd bet if you knew the true reason he blocked you, it would put a damper on your desire to see him again. Avoid the drama and move on...

 

Mr. Lucky

[preraph]

His girlfriend saw his flirty text and he had to block you to keep her from leaving. When you're in a casual sex relationship, always assume there are one or more women involved. I don't mind that so much. What I mind is when there's one he's lying to and cheating on.

[stillafool]

Oh he liked you. It's just you two were on a hook up site, hooked up several times, had a great time and then....he met someone else he wants to do the same thing with. Why stop at one potato chip if you have the option of eating the entire bag.

[Normm]

He got an STD and thinks you gave it to him.

[KissingFire]

You'll never know, and you need to accept that. Dust yourself down, remember your worth and soon your pride will heal.

 

I've had this happen before and 9/10 times it's because there's another woman. I've had every excuse in the book "family issues" "not ready for commitment" "my ex is crazy" and then poof! A week later they're in a relationship.