Iris17 Posted November 5, 2018 Posted November 5, 2018 (edited) As the headline stated, has anyone ever expose your affair to the wives or husband's? In order to break them up or to pressurise your partner to divorce? How did it turn out? Ps. no I'm not the OW or OM Edited November 5, 2018 by Iris17
FITT5559 Posted November 5, 2018 Posted November 5, 2018 As the headline stated, has anyone ever expose your affair to the wives or husband's? In order to break them up or to pressurise your partner to divorce? How did it turn out? Ps. no I'm not the OW or OM I don't think exposing to the BW would break them up, she may get competitive and fight to keep him. With a BH, he may leave. Personally, I would never want to tell the BW about the affair. IMO, that's MM's responsibility.
carhill Posted November 5, 2018 Posted November 5, 2018 I didn't tell the BH, rather sent him all his wife's love letters and cards. Didn't do it to force anything in their M other than put an exclamation point on the goodbye the prior day. Turned out they went on a cruise the day after the stuff arrived, a birthday present for the MW. She got her birthday present from me, lunch and a goodbye, at my place on her birthday It worked great. Not a peep further from anyone. That was 27 years ago so before the commercial internet. We still used mail and pay phones back then.
Lotus_Luna Posted November 6, 2018 Posted November 6, 2018 I would never contact her. I would tell him to be honest with her if he really wants his marriage. It’s a way to move forward. Face their problems and decide what they want. I would NEVER pressure him to leave. I wouldn’t want him to leave for me.... nope. He would have to leave for himself because he’s done.
Mr. Lucky Posted November 6, 2018 Posted November 6, 2018 I was contacted by the wife of my spouse’s AP. This was pre-Internet, she actually knocked on my door. Interesting conversation... Mr. Lucky
Chilli Posted November 6, 2018 Posted November 6, 2018 l def' would've if he had a damn partner , l wish. When l found out he didn't have one , knew l was screwed. Because l've heard many stories about exposing it especially to his or her spouse, and it very often blows the whole thing to bits, again , l wish. So l def' would've if l could've.
Author Iris17 Posted November 6, 2018 Author Posted November 6, 2018 I didn't tell the BH, rather sent him all his wife's love letters and cards. Didn't do it to force anything in their M other than put an exclamation point on the goodbye the prior day. Turned out they went on a cruise the day after the stuff arrived, a birthday present for the MW. She got her birthday present from me, lunch and a goodbye, at my place on her birthday It worked great. Not a peep further from anyone. That was 27 years ago so before the commercial internet. We still used mail and pay phones back then. What's BH???
carhill Posted November 6, 2018 Posted November 6, 2018 Sorry, shorthand. BH - Betrayed Husband. We've got a thread somewhere with all that stuff, I think in the Water Cooler forum.
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