Mabu8128 Posted November 5, 2018 Share Posted November 5, 2018 Told my friend that I have to to cut contact becasue I like her more than a friend and its not fair to both of us if I carry on pretending. I deleted her of all Social Media but somehow she still got this message to me. Hey , I don’t know if you deleted whatsapp because you didn’t want to hear my answer.. Anyway I wanted you to know how I feel and think about it. I was thinking about what to answer for days now.. i still haven‘t found the right words and I feel it’s not going to become better. I‘m really shocked since I thought we‘ve been over this topic. I know how hard it is to get rid of feelings especially of those really strong feelings. Although I think you should‘ve been honest to me about what you feel. I get that you tried „just being a friend“ but like you said, that’s not fair for none of us. It makes me really sad to cut our friendship at this point but I also understand that it’s the best for you to protect yourself. Still.. I wish that one day, we can talk to each other again and just be happy that we’ve met. It makes me cry to „let you go“ although I can understand it.. I wish you the best in your life and I‘m sure you will find the right one because you deserve it!! I do and will miss you! This made me feel worse than the actual "break up" part....what should I do Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted November 6, 2018 Share Posted November 6, 2018 You should stick to your guns & endure this separation. Her message was her telling you she understands & accepts that you have to do this. Although she hopes your friendship can be repaired someday she's fundamentally a nice person who knows she does not return your romantic interest. Be happy that you pick good people but do keep your distance. You are not going to get the happy ending you want so for now stay out of her orbit for a few years. Do be civil & polite if you bump into her in public but that is all you can do. Link to post Share on other sites
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