Author attheend Posted November 13, 2018 Author Share Posted November 13, 2018 Never thought I'd feel this way again. Not sure listening to my Zeppelin albums is helping lol. Link to post Share on other sites
SummerDreams Posted November 14, 2018 Share Posted November 14, 2018 Oh man, you're 51 and shes 60?? Take this opportunity presented to you and find yourself a younger woman!! You will not be disappointed!! Embrace your new found freedom and go with it, don't worry about what she's up to, she's on the wrong side of 60!! Are you suggesting that younger women don't cheat on their hudbands? Or that them being young and the sex is better makes the cheating justifiable? Don't get me wrong, I think the OP should go on with divorce, but saying he should be happy to get rid of his old wife after 25 years, it sounds kinda cruel. Link to post Share on other sites
standtall Posted November 14, 2018 Share Posted November 14, 2018 Never thought I'd feel this way again. Not sure listening to my Zeppelin albums is helping lol. No doubt...at least in Led Zeppelin 1 and 2, there is some pretty consistent woman hate themes. Link to post Share on other sites
Author attheend Posted December 20, 2018 Author Share Posted December 20, 2018 Just wanted to update my situation - Still separated - Attended mediation and came to a workable agreement - I may have given a little too much, but avoided long term alimony. I'm still having some issues dealing, but am working out and going out - meeting people, and attending counseling. I think I'm going to cancel counseling as I'm not sure its doing much for me. Working on selling the house as I didn't want the risk of buying her out. Looking forward to finding a new place to call my own. The house is too big and empty. Christmas week will be interesting as Christmas, my birthday and her birthday are all in the same week. All in all, doing ok, though. Link to post Share on other sites
Marc878 Posted December 20, 2018 Share Posted December 20, 2018 Run a hard 180 no contact. It sucks upfront but will be your best path. Link to post Share on other sites
Author attheend Posted December 20, 2018 Author Share Posted December 20, 2018 Run a hard 180 no contact. It sucks upfront but will be your best path. Thanks Marc878 - Working on the 180 - still have to communicate over financial issues, though. Any communication has been short and business, though. Link to post Share on other sites
Marc878 Posted December 25, 2018 Share Posted December 25, 2018 The best method is communication by text or email only. Civil, short and on point only. Never engage. Ignore anything that's not pertinent. You're likely like most get breadcrumbs, let's be friends, etc. none of that is for you. It would just keep you bound up in something that you need to get away from. Link to post Share on other sites
Author attheend Posted December 26, 2018 Author Share Posted December 26, 2018 The best method is communication by text or email only. Civil, short and on point only. Never engage. Ignore anything that's not pertinent. You're likely like most get breadcrumbs, let's be friends, etc. none of that is for you. It would just keep you bound up in something that you need to get away from. Thanks again Marc878 - I appreciate your advice and support. Link to post Share on other sites
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