pepperbird Posted November 6, 2018 Share Posted November 6, 2018 If you are a betrayed spouse who found out your spouse was having/ had been in an affair, how did you first become aware they were cheating? How did you react? I'm just asking for interest's sake, not for myself. Link to post Share on other sites
Lotus_Luna Posted November 6, 2018 Share Posted November 6, 2018 I told my husband about the affair myself. He didn’t really seem to care for a few days. Link to post Share on other sites
Gaeta Posted November 6, 2018 Share Posted November 6, 2018 He emptied his pocket on my desk because I kept all of our receipts. Among his receipts I found ID and password to a dating site. I used them, found his profile, read his messages. I confronted him he tried to gaslight me, it worked for a while. Of course from there I started being suspicious so I'd look in his pocket, his car. I found multitudes of clues like hotel keys, phone numbers, even women's clothes in his car. Link to post Share on other sites
hurtbyher99 Posted November 6, 2018 Share Posted November 6, 2018 I went through her phone and found about 3 months worth of texts Link to post Share on other sites
Orokotikki Posted November 6, 2018 Share Posted November 6, 2018 Well, the very tip top of the iceberg was when I put an insurance document she needed in her purse on my way to work and noticed birth control in the purse. I gave her the benefit of the doubt, but when behavior seemed odd I checked emails (on the ipad I had given her, engraved with "To my loving wife, <name>" on the back) and saw the iceberg for what it was. Link to post Share on other sites
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