wtfhappend Posted November 7, 2018 Share Posted November 7, 2018 so i made a post a few days ago, trying to figure out whats been happening ive been trying to talk to her but its been nothing but a game. touch and go. i saw her the other night, she had zero emotions at all. like careless, weve been texting, but all shes been trying to do is fight with me. anger, extreme anger. threatening me with the police. saying that im harrassing her? constantly texting me asking me to buy things. but wont talk about any relationship stuff. she exploded on me saying that she hates me and cant stand me and that i did NOTHING for her kids and that ive never helped out and that ive never been there, that im useless, that im lazy that i dont have her back. that im the problem that everythings my fault. the list goes on. just 2 weeks ago we were making love and cuddling in bed. this really shocks me that shes saying all this and acting this way, so heartless. so emotionally abusive. where did it come from? i know shes always been a bit bipolar and i know shes a narcissist. but like really, man 8 years and all of a sudden just swords drawn, attacking me full force. i mean she could be cheating. who knows, but it still baffles me her behavior. she said , my family doesnt give a **** about you. she also threatend me many times. court custody that crap. i dont get it too i told her how much i loved her and everything, and it was like the more i said it, the more angry she got and the more she tried to break my heart. she has been taking medication. man just non of this makes any sense... my question for the women. can you explain why some women act like this, what does it mean? Link to post Share on other sites
darkmoon Posted November 7, 2018 Share Posted November 7, 2018 (edited) I think she kept in what she saw as wrongs for a long time and then could hold them in no longer, so finally she reacted ... "i did NOTHING for her kids and that ive never helped out and that ive never been there, that im useless, that im lazy that i dont have her back" so out the wrongs all came, after being bottled up (which is diplomatic) for who knows how long? you two need to talk, or split up, if you talk be prepared to change, sorry, but she has been pissed off with you for a while, imho Edited November 7, 2018 by darkmoon Link to post Share on other sites
Redhead14 Posted November 7, 2018 Share Posted November 7, 2018 so i made a post a few days ago, trying to figure out whats been happening ive been trying to talk to her but its been nothing but a game. touch and go. i saw her the other night, she had zero emotions at all. like careless, weve been texting, but all shes been trying to do is fight with me. anger, extreme anger. threatening me with the police. saying that im harrassing her? constantly texting me asking me to buy things. but wont talk about any relationship stuff. she exploded on me saying that she hates me and cant stand me and that i did NOTHING for her kids and that ive never helped out and that ive never been there, that im useless, that im lazy that i dont have her back. that im the problem that everythings my fault. the list goes on. just 2 weeks ago we were making love and cuddling in bed. this really shocks me that shes saying all this and acting this way, so heartless. so emotionally abusive. where did it come from? i know shes always been a bit bipolar and i know shes a narcissist. but like really, man 8 years and all of a sudden just swords drawn, attacking me full force. i mean she could be cheating. who knows, but it still baffles me her behavior. she said , my family doesnt give a **** about you. she also threatend me many times. court custody that crap. i dont get it too i told her how much i loved her and everything, and it was like the more i said it, the more angry she got and the more she tried to break my heart. she has been taking medication. man just non of this makes any sense... my question for the women. can you explain why some women act like this, what does it mean? she has been taking medication - It isn't working. That being said, I'm thinking she just was going through the motions in the relationship and dissociating herself from whatever's been bothering her for a long time and it finally came gushing out. She's done you a favor. Thank her and keep moving. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
elaine567 Posted November 7, 2018 Share Posted November 7, 2018 That being said, I'm thinking she just was going through the motions in the relationship and dissociating herself from whatever's been bothering her for a long time and it finally came gushing out. She's done you a favor. Thank her and keep moving. Which is more or less exactly what PRW said on your previous thread... Link to post Share on other sites
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