Jumpyn Posted November 9, 2018 Share Posted November 9, 2018 (edited) Hi, My girlfriends sister has told my girlfriend that I still have a profile on Match.com and it is showing that I have been recently active. They now both think I have been active on match looking at the profiles of other users. Apparently I have been recently active!! we met on match about a year ago and are very happy, being confronted about this a couple of days ago has put a huge strain on us and is testing our relationship deeply. After getting together via match we looked at unsubscribing from their constant emails about 'Daily Matches' we thought we had both unsubscribed, turns out hers had worked and mine had not. I have been getting these emails in my social folder on gmail for ages. I have recently opened a few of them to see If I could unsubscribe from them, could not see an unsubscribe link on the email so clicked on the email which then set me directly to match and straight onto the old profile I used to have, a hangover from the paid subscription I believe. The question is... If i have opened or clicked on any of these emails from match.com does this then automatically set this old profile as being active without me actually engaging with the website at all, this is potentially going to break this relationship so please any help is appreciated, has anyone else had a similar problem?? Edited November 10, 2018 by a LoveShack.org Moderator Link to post Share on other sites
Art_Critic Posted November 10, 2018 Share Posted November 10, 2018 Why not deactivate or delete your profile... Problem solved Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted November 10, 2018 Share Posted November 10, 2018 I don't know. Tell your GF some of what you told us. Sit with her. Log into your account. Then ask for her help deactivating your account. Then send your GF flowers. Yes, that is a cliché but it's a cliché for a reason. Flowers fix a lot. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
preraph Posted November 10, 2018 Share Posted November 10, 2018 So you did open them, by your own admission when you said "if I opened." You're still interested to see who's interested, which, yes, is ground for breaking up by anyone with any self-respect. I'm sure if you Google your Match question, you will find an answer. The fact you hadn't done this previously is telling. Link to post Share on other sites
BaileyB Posted November 10, 2018 Share Posted November 10, 2018 Enlist her help in deleting your old profile. Then, take her out for a nice dinner and show her how much you love her... 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Gretchen12 Posted November 10, 2018 Share Posted November 10, 2018 I believe you. Your gf has to just take your word for it. There will be other instances where your word just has to be good enough. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
vanhalenfan Posted November 11, 2018 Share Posted November 11, 2018 Enlist her help in deleting your old profile. Then, take her out for a nice dinner and show her how much you love her... Yes, this. Log in together, delete the account and have an enjoyable evening together 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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