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So, my wife left 10/28/2018 (3 and some change weeks) and NC started day 1, and last I known is she was staying with a female friend in the same apt complex (literally 100 feet away). She has came over and picked up some stuff a couple times while I was at work, but has left a lot of important/expensive things.

 

We are both on the lease, the utility bills are in her name. We got a car together 2 years ago and that is in her name. She has pretty much abandoned the car as I have the keys, but our lease needs to be renewed, the power needs to be put into my name and the internet bill needs to be terminated, but she hasn't reached out about any of these matters.

 

So I guess i'm looking for advice on if I should break contact about these issues. If I should how should I do it.

 

If you need more information feel free to post below and ask away. I am an open book

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NC is not a "thing", is not a noun, is not some kind of rule, not a punishment, does not mean ignore. Most of the time I think it is just stupid and childish.

 

Take care of the business you have to take care of.

 

Pretend that this is the 1970's and all you have is a rotary phone screwed to the wall in the kitchen with a 6 foot handset cord and the US Postal Service,...and a pair of shoes considering she is 100feet away. So what would you do then?

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