How often do you see each other?

[TheRainbow]

When I was first dating my husband, before I moved in with him I'd see him 5 or 6 times a week atleast. It either be overnight or a few hours, but I saw him often.

[PRW]

Ah, I see. That makes sense, particularly if that is the mindset of guys you were thinking of when you wrote it. I can see how that would be helpful.

 

I find your posts interesting. It's a discussion, and I wanted to mention that other approaches work for people too.

I know, I understand. My response was meant more general.

[PRW]

So PRW, can you tell us how this has worked for YOU in real life experiences? How did you meet your girlfriend? Do you have a girlfriend? How many relationships have you had?

 

You come off very strongly as someone who has studied PUA on line... but lack real life application and experience.

 

So I am simply curious, what is your background that makes you so qualified to advise "insecure guys". Were you one of them, but learned from this and changed your behavior, and now have great success with women?

 

Or do you help your friends and now they are successful with women? Whats your angle?

 

I'm not going to do your "interview", it is condescendingly phased and sounds like a main stream media "ambush" interview.

 

I will say that I reject the PUA community. You want to know more about me, read my posts like everyone else does.

Edited November 16, 2018 by PRW

[hippychick3]

I'm not going to do your "interview", it is condescendingly phased and sounds like a main stream media "ambush" interview.

 

I will say that I reject the PUA community. You want to know more about me, read my posts like everyone else does.

 

I don't really see where she ambushed you.

 

I used to want to be an author...many, many years ago. So I read a LOT of books about how to write a novel. I only purchased books written by successful novelists. Otherwise, how could I trust that their advice would work for me? I certainly would not have purchased a book or even read information from someone who was an anonymous or unpublished author. I learned a lot from reading those books and could probably write a how-to book myself with all that knowledge. But I wouldn't do that, because I'm not a successful novelist. I have no credibility as a novelist. No one would buy my book.

[Malin889]

I'm not going to do your "interview", it is condescendingly phased and sounds like a main stream media "ambush" interview.

 

I will say that I reject the PUA community. You want to know more about me, read my posts like everyone else does.

 

PRW, I think all Recent Change meant was, you come off with this Blue Print set of rules, so she was wondering what your qualifications were. The Blue Prints made you sound like you were a dating coach of some kind. No one was being offensive. I was actually wondering the same myself.

[greymatter]

PRW, I think all Recent Change meant was, you come off with this Blue Print set of rules, so she was wondering what your qualifications were. The Blue Prints made you sound like you were a dating coach of some kind. No one was being offensive. I was actually wondering the same myself.

 

This and the disclaimer in PRW's signature [Please note: The suggestions and advice offered on this web site by me are my opinions only and are not to be used in the place of professional psychological counseling or medical advice] also make it seem like he believes that others look to him especially for coaching. No offense, PRW, but it is pretty self aggrandizing.

 

OP, I see my partner 1-3 times a week. It varies depending on our kids' schedules, work, seeing friends, and other variables. This weekend I saw him Friday/Saturday/Sunday. We are not ever going to move in together or get married (we've both been there done that) and we are very organic about it all. If we each didn't have kids, we'd spend more nights together, I'm sure.