wtfhappend Posted November 16, 2018 Share Posted November 16, 2018 I cant figure out why she hates me so much. She just screams at me n wont stop. Its like me not understanding why she wants to breakup pisses her off. She tried to throw a whole bunch of stuff from the past in my face while being a victim and having no fault or responsibility. It sickens me how she just blammed me for everything while everything she was blamimg me for is **** shes been doing. The narcissist discard. Google it. Thats what happend to me. Broke up with me twice like im nothing. I hate un faithful n unloyal people. And its wierd. She said" its to late im done" and i said ok i get it. N she kept going on like i wouldnt stop. But i said ok i get it like 20 times n she kept repeating it like she was hearing something different. Running out on our 8 years n our family. Im so not sullrized. She did it once n shell do it Gain n afain forever. But dont forget. Im a bad man n everythings my fault. Link to post Share on other sites
Marc878 Posted November 16, 2018 Share Posted November 16, 2018 The big question is why have you put up with this behavior? I can tell you it's not worth it. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author wtfhappend Posted November 16, 2018 Author Share Posted November 16, 2018 The big question is why have you put up with this behavior? I can tell you it's not worth it. Because i thought love conquered all. But it turns out that it doesnt exist Link to post Share on other sites
richs86 Posted November 16, 2018 Share Posted November 16, 2018 Because i thought love conquered all. But it turns out that it doesnt exist It does exist, but from the sound of it you've had all the self love beaten out of you to the point you cannot see it. Take some time, fall in love with yourself again. Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted November 16, 2018 Share Posted November 16, 2018 If you have a family with this person after 8 years, your priority right now has to be your kids. Where are they? Who has custody? Where will they live? How will visitation work? This is your 2nd break up. You are now seeing her true colors: someone who won't take responsibility, who blames everybody else & who just wants to scream. All of that is a bad foundation for an enduring relationship. Remember that if you are feeling weak & thinking about something foolish like reconciliation. For now, just walk away but keep your kids safe. Healing from an 8 year break up won't be easy but it's better then enduring 8 more years of crazy. Link to post Share on other sites
fromheart Posted November 19, 2018 Share Posted November 19, 2018 Don't stand there taking abuse. Tell her to either communicate like an adult, or you must leave. Then walk away if she doesn't comply. Always stand up to toxicity, or your life will be full of it. Link to post Share on other sites
fromheart Posted November 19, 2018 Share Posted November 19, 2018 Because i thought love conquered all. But it turns out that it doesnt exist Self love certainly does conquer all. Once you have self love, you have more chance of encountering love. The self loving thing to do in this case, would be to not tolerate any further abuse from her. Link to post Share on other sites
elaine567 Posted November 19, 2018 Share Posted November 19, 2018 She has just had a baby, has Post partum depression or psychosis been ruled out? Link to post Share on other sites
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