Tinie Posted November 23, 2018 Share Posted November 23, 2018 Lots of woman want children I hear it all the time. And older women are freezing eggs. I just don't understand what the fuss is all about. I never did. I suppose I get my material instincts out with dog training. IDK. Why is that confusing and needs to be questioned? Some women want children and some don't. I want children, why does that confuse you? I like children. I want my own. That's not me "making a fuss". FTR, I don't agree with anything James is saying. But I don't get why a woman's desire to have or not have children should be questioned. Maybe children are not a fuss to you but they're important to some people. I don't get the dismissive attitude. Link to post Share on other sites
MissBee Posted December 7, 2018 Share Posted December 7, 2018 Regardless of your other issues, I wouldn't bring children into the marriage you describe anyway. A child adds more issues to deal with, something your relationship doesn't need and seems ill-prepared to handle... Mr. Lucky I agree. Children are full humans that change your life and come with their own issues and things you cannot predict, even in a relationship that's thriving. Adding children to a struggling one will absolutely not make things better and would be selfish as far as it being a disservice to the child who didn't ask to be born. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Els Posted December 7, 2018 Share Posted December 7, 2018 They (the majority of other women) are confused to why you don't want to be a mother. Umm, I think the only person here who is confused is you, not "other women". This post is the textbook example of mansplaining, lol. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
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