Today Would Have been My 1 year Anniversary With Ex.

[Epythamus]

So, as the title says, today would have been my one year anniversary with my first and last girlfriend (now ex for 8 months and some days).

 

Now, the thing is, I haven't spoke to her in two months and I was wondering if I should text her and see how she's doing and maybe somehow talk about the anniversary if the conversation goes well.

 

Note 1: our breakup was mutual and there was no fighting, no hassle, no drama.

Note 2: despite the fact we were still friends on Facebook and followed each other on Instagram, we didn't interact with each other in any means, not even by liking each other's posts. This has been going for like 4 months or so until today. She liked a post of mine on Instagram. Now, her liking my post magically coincided with today, our would-be anniversary, which I partially took as if she's trying to say "Hey I liked this post to get your attention because I want to talk to you, but I'm not messaging you first".

 

My question again is: should I message her? Perhaps this might be a chance to reunite?

[alphamale]

you should not contact her in any way, shape, or form.

 

the relationship is OVER, move on

[preraph]

You were only with her 4 months. That's dating more than a relationship. I doubt she's even noticed because no one marks anniversary of a 4-month relationship. Most women are happy enough to be "just friendly acquaintances" with an ex, so that means nothing. She's moved on and you need to stop marking time and realize you're just wasting time and it's best to just drop it and move on. You should stop following her social media because you are reading things into any little thing. Sorry you're still hurting, but time to move on.

[Mysterio]

Don't bother. Maybe a B-day FB message and make it cut and dry. If you try to contact. You are just moving backwards.

 

A new woman will come into your life, whenever its supposed to happen. Sometimes we have to make things better by leaving it alone.

[Simple Logic]

You have been apart longer than you were together.

[d0nnivain]

It's not a chance to reunite. You have been apart more then twice as long as you were together. It is mature of you that the break was mutual & not messy or mean but sentimentality is no reason to reunite.

 

Her liking your post was coincidental. It is not a sign, except maybe that you need to disconnect on social media.

 

One of the reasons that you haven't found a new GF is that you are still hung up on her. All this business about the anniversary tells me you are still holding out hope. Until you fully accept that it's over, you won't be able to move forward. You need to let go of her to find somebody new.

 

When you do get a new GF that person won't tolerate you being any kind of friends with your EX so you might as well disconnect now. It's healthier this way.