goth-gal Posted November 19, 2018 Share Posted November 19, 2018 Our first two dates were awesome... 100% chemistry. But he’s been a serial monogamist, married and then had a GF. I was weirded out by him coming on too strong and freaked out he broken up recently and I might be a rebound or maybe he doesn’t know how to tell if he really likes someone and just falls into relationships. Well... apparently I did a good job cause suddenly he wanted to take things slowly and see other people. I ended up breaking things up a couple days after our last date. I wouldn’t be able to live with knowing he might be sleeping with other people although it’s still early to be his GF or so. I’ve been super sad since. I told him in the message that he could let me know if he ever wanted to give it a real try (as in, at least be sexually exclusive). I guess I won’t be hearing from him uh? Despite him saying he can have convos with me he couldn’t with his ex GF for over a year... Do men who are dating around ever realize what they lost? And if so do they come back despite the tension that had built up in the few dates? So many men write me but I guess it’s hard to feel intellectual chemistry with someone and it’s been hard to let it go. (And yes if you look at my other thread I might be prego of him UGH). Link to post Share on other sites
PRW Posted November 20, 2018 Share Posted November 20, 2018 Sounds to me like two people who are both screwed up with insecurities,...pretty much equally. It is common when you put two people with insecurities together that their insecurities do sort of a feedback loop with each other and it goes nuclear. Serial monogamist? Many would think that is a positive. They are actually people who believe that it is immoral to have sex outside of marriage. I know that blows the mind of people in our atheist driven society,...but it used to be considered normal and the way things were SUPPOSED to be back in the 1950's and earlier and was the majority opinion. I was weirded out by him coming on too strong and freaked out he broken up recently and I might be a rebound or maybe he doesn’t know how to tell if he really likes someone and just falls into relationships.I can't figure out what you are trying to describe there. Link to post Share on other sites
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