ZA Dater Posted November 19, 2018 Share Posted November 19, 2018 This past weekend I once again got to live a little vicariously and realised that. 1: One never stops looking 2: Some things just work for no explainable reason they just do. Its a well known fact I dislike going to events on my own and K is my preferred alternative and lately I had been questioning this but then I did it again and was reminded why I do this. It just works, we communicate easily, anything is up for discussion and yes those at the back will be going on about friend zone but really is that so bad for someone like me? Is it so bad to have a friend who pretty much fills most of the void of a GF some of the time? Sure its not ideal but I signed up to some sort of "elite" dating service and surprise its more of the same, single moms. Way I see it I may as well continue with the faux arrangement, she wants to get more involved in things I do so there is benefit there. At least with her I can present the best of me and easier to do than on a coffee date with someone random person, I had to give an off the cuff speech and the look on her face when I delivered it was telling. The point here is imperfect can be better than nothing at all. As an aside this supposed elite service, every single match is going on about settling down and their kids and that's not me at all. I look at these people with a someone cynical eye and then decide what they actually bring to the table and how they would fit in with me and the conclusion is they wouldn't. Link to post Share on other sites
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