simpleinterest Posted September 13, 2005 Share Posted September 13, 2005 i want to thank everyone that responded to my first request for assistance. the insight and advice was greatly appreciated...but, i'm hoping to hear from someone that can provide me with the information that i'm looking for. perhaps, i should better explain my situation so that everyone will better understand what i'm looking for and why. let me begin by saying that i don't think my wife is having an affair...in fact i'm sure that she isn't. however, i'm quite certain that she's attacted to, distracted by, and interested in someone that she recently met. yes, i've tried to talk with her about this, but these attempts have been quickly dismissed with denials followed by her refusal to further discuss the matter. given this, the only conceivable way for me to really know what she's feeling and thinking, is to find an online quiz or test about infidelity and/or sex that can be sent to her via email...and, most importantly, somehow i will need to be able to access her answers. before anyone cautions me that she will be suspicous and not bother to take the test...let me assure you that she will. i know her well, and she won't be the least bit suspicous at all. any assistance in helping me find this would be appreciated. thanks, so much. Link to post Share on other sites
LucreziaBorgia Posted September 13, 2005 Share Posted September 13, 2005 she said that if we were to divorce that i would never find anyone else, but she wouldn't have any problem finding someone... she told me that the man she chatted with on her flight home was interested in her. the next day she told me that she was unhappy with me and our marriage and asked me to leave. I'm not sure why an online 'infidelity' test is needed here. She came back from a week-long trip, vaguely mentioning a man who was 'interested in her', TOLD you she was unhappy, and asked you to leave. At this point, what good would hacking into an online 'infidelity' test do? Her answers aren't going to change the fact that she wants to have an affair (if she hasn't had one already), and wants you out of her life. At this point, you may want to consider a good divorce lawyer instead. As for an online test, I Googled for one and looked on a few sites (Surviving Infidelity and Marriage Builders) and saw nothing like what you are looking for. The only thing I can think of is that you could go to Quizilla, anonymously make your own quiz, set up a fake email account and email her the link to your "test" through email. I have to tell you though, you would have no way of getting to her answers outside of some hacking (or if she leaves her casche full you can check her history and go back and see if you can find the pages where she took the test), but even then there's no guarantee she'll take the test. If you want to find out REAL answers - consider a keylogger for the computer, and take steps to monitor (checking phone records, hiring a PI) what is going on outside of the "anonymous quiz". She'll see right through that, anyway. Link to post Share on other sites
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