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So yeah last night I saw my ex gf on the bus sat with some girl as soon as I saw her I turned around and didnt look twice... My friend next to me said she was just staring at me and laughing which is weird and childish... I didnt look funny or anything I loooked normal so I dont know what the motive behidn that was... She's the one that broke up with me 3 months ago and she was the one that kept initiating contact and she wanted to be friends which I rejected immediately that was 2 months ago...

 

What do you guys think is the reason behind this?

Its quite upseting because I still like her and we stopped talking over a month ago now because she got jealous over some girl I posted on my insta story which is pathetic since we were broken up anyway...

 

So what the hell is going on..

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Why care. Stay dark

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Why care. Stay dark

 

Trust me I am I just want to know the reason behind it because it doesnt make any sense we ended on somewhat alright terms and all I said is we should talk and move on I even wished her nan the best since she was in hospital so it doesnt make sense to why she would just laugh at me for no reason whatsoever I'm overthinking it I know but I just wanna know why

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Sounds like sour grapes. She dumped you but wanted the friends thing which is all for her at your expense.

 

Then you cut her off which is what you should have done.

 

Jealous over another girl so she has to reinforce herself that she's done the right thing.

 

In any event she's immature and not someone you'd want to keep in contact with anyway.

 

You were supposed to be devastated and not move on quickly like you did.

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Some people laugh when they are nervous

 

You also thought based on the timing that she was laughing at you. Since you couldn't hear the conversation, perhaps her friend was making her laugh or they came from a funny movie. This might not have been about you at all but just a coincidence of timing.

 

Either way if you genuinely think she was laughing AT you chalk it up to her being a immature horrible person & stop wasting time on her.

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Sounds like sour grapes. She dumped you but wanted the friends thing which is all for her at your expense.

 

Then you cut her off which is what you should have done.

 

Jealous over another girl so she has to reinforce herself that she's done the right thing.

 

In any event she's immature and not someone you'd want to keep in contact with anyway.

 

You were supposed to be devastated and not move on quickly like you did.

I agree 100% with you she expected me to beg and fight for her when she dumped which I didn't so I let her go didnt bother shes not worth it even tho I miss her a lot I'm not going to reach out or do anything because its pointless and she showed me what kind of a person she's like anyway the fact that she laughed which i wouldn't ever do if I saw her is quite disrespectful and did hurt me a bit...

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Some people laugh when they are nervous

 

You also thought based on the timing that she was laughing at you. Since you couldn't hear the conversation, perhaps her friend was making her laugh or they came from a funny movie. This might not have been about you at all but just a coincidence of timing.

 

Either way if you genuinely think she was laughing AT you chalk it up to her being a immature horrible person & stop wasting time on her.

 

Yeah you are right I'm not even wasting my time on her my life is going the right way I found a great busineess administration apprenticeship unfortunately at the same college she goes to and I'm happy right now..

 

I don't think it was a coincidence that she laughed because she literally stared at me and then I looked away and thats when she started laughing I could tell and even my friend next to me said it its creepy that she was just staring as well... It's best to move on but clearly she can't be mature enough to ignore me like I did lol

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She is attracted to you - after you broke up with her you didn't beg/you just stopped and rejected all communication (indication of high value/a man who knows his value for himself and to to other women), and you even refused friendship (an alpha trait - not accepting anything less than dating)and then you mentioned that you posted a picture on Instagram of some other girl (indication of options - he has other options besides me and 'competition anxiety/regret' - I am now competing with other women for his attention/I might lose him for good,omg)

 

You unknowingly did some of the things we advice men who lose their girlfriends and want their exs back

 

You made yourself the 'price' and made her start chasing, women are attracted to a man they feel they must do something to get, or to earn his attention - they want a love that cost them..

 

Women's default means of communication is 'covert/subtle' cummunication unlike men's 'overt' communication - she is now desperate and crossing towards the 'overt' communication : starring directly at you, laughing at you : all in an attempt to get your attention - she didn't want to 'hurt you' or embarass you, she was desperate to win your attention that you have made expensive lately and she has been desperate to win..

 

Remember this : "The opposite of love is not hate, it's indifference", any emotion a woman has towards you is a good sing, even hate, anger,..the did breaker is indifference...that's why you hear husbands who get cheated on say, 'I thought we were fine, I thought she was happy, I didn't see it come'.In the art of seduction all female attention is good attention, sign of emotional engagement..

 

Your ex was so wet for you she wanted to 'rappe' you, she wanted to fck u like there is no tomorrow, she wanted to fck u until she gets u to forget abt the 'other woman' she subconsciously fears you are moving on with - and the seks would hv been very good...if only you were present when you entered the bus, if only you weren't self indulged you could have realized the signs - many men like you are so busy entwined in their emotions, and self-perceptions that they miss all these signs ...this is also why narcissists are very good with women..they see women clearly in the moment..

 

I am a womanizer, trust me, if it was me she did this to, we would have been having hot seks by now...

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She is attracted to you - after you broke up with her you didn't beg/you just stopped and rejected all communication (indication of high value/a man who knows his value for himself and to to other women), and you even refused friendship (an alpha trait - not accepting anything less than dating)and then you mentioned that you posted a picture on Instagram of some other girl (indication of options - he has other options besides me and 'competition anxiety/regret' - I am now competing with other women for his attention/I might lose him for good,omg)

 

 

SHE broke up with HIM.

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She is attracted to you - after you broke up with her you didn't beg/you just stopped and rejected all communication (indication of high value/a man who knows his value for himself and to to other women), and you even refused friendship (an alpha trait - not accepting anything less than dating)and then you mentioned that you posted a picture on Instagram of some other girl (indication of options - he has other options besides me and 'competition anxiety/regret' - I am now competing with other women for his attention/I might lose him for good,omg)

 

You unknowingly did some of the things we advice men who lose their girlfriends and want their exs back

 

You made yourself the 'price' and made her start chasing, women are attracted to a man they feel they must do something to get, or to earn his attention - they want a love that cost them..

 

Women's default means of communication is 'covert/subtle' cummunication unlike men's 'overt' communication - she is now desperate and crossing towards the 'overt' communication : starring directly at you, laughing at you : all in an attempt to get your attention - she didn't want to 'hurt you' or embarass you, she was desperate to win your attention that you have made expensive lately and she has been desperate to win..

 

Remember this : "The opposite of love is not hate, it's indifference", any emotion a woman has towards you is a good sing, even hate, anger,..the did breaker is indifference...that's why you hear husbands who get cheated on say, 'I thought we were fine, I thought she was happy, I didn't see it come'.In the art of seduction all female attention is good attention, sign of emotional engagement..

 

Your ex was so wet for you she wanted to 'rappe' you, she wanted to fck u like there is no tomorrow, she wanted to fck u until she gets u to forget abt the 'other woman' she subconsciously fears you are moving on with - and the seks would hv been very good...if only you were present when you entered the bus, if only you weren't self indulged you could have realized the signs - many men like you are so busy entwined in their emotions, and self-perceptions that they miss all these signs ...this is also why narcissists are very good with women..they see women clearly in the moment..

 

I am a womanizer, trust me, if it was me she did this to, we would have been having hot seks by now...

 

I cant say more than what an amazing post that is haha but the thing is she's the one who broke up with me and I can tell she's trying to grab my attention like you said but unfortunately she's the one that ended things.

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I think it was likely that she was laughing to demonstrate what a great time she's having without you. She was just being childish.

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I think it was likely that she was laughing to demonstrate what a great time she's having without you. She was just being childish.

 

Exactly....

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I cant say more than what an amazing post that is haha but the thing is she's the one who broke up with me and I can tell she's trying to grab my attention like you said but unfortunately she's the one that ended things.

 

Still makes no difference, even if she cheated on you or dumbed you..

 

This is boring to explain, these things are so obvious and second nature to me..exs are a no issue, I can easily fck anyone of mine now, even the married ones...did it several times...

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I think it was likely that she was laughing to demonstrate what a great time she's having without you. She was just being childish.

 

Whats the point tho? she's the one who ended it she doesnt have to prove me anything?

 

If I was the one showing her that im having a great time without her then ok makes sense but why would a dumper bother?

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Still makes no difference, even if she cheated on you or dumbed you..

 

This is boring to explain, these things are so obvious and second nature to me..exs are a no issue, I can easily fck anyone of mine now, even the married ones...did it several times...

 

Few days ago her friend that dated my best friend for 10 months (they've broken up) posted 2 pictures of my ex the first one was a screenshot of my exe's new picture on instagram which my exe's friend poste on her "Private snapchat story" which is pointless why did she feel the need of posting my ex's new picture on her private snapchat story... and the second picture was a throwback of them with my ex girlfriend's snapchat name tagged in it... also posted on her "Private story''

 

I dont know if im just overthinking but Im pretty sure shes using her friend to grab my attention..

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She wants your attention, is upset over the breakup but doesn't necessarily want you back. She's probably very immature and convinced herself the breakup was entirely your fault. Same reason as my ex going post-breakup mental, hitting rebound central and posting some crazy story on Instagram on my bday.

 

{I'll wait for the inevitable regular posters to tell me how the breakup was my fault, how I treated her badly yada yada yada}

 

Best to ignore and keep doing your thing. That will be enough to mind fck with her.

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She wants your attention, is upset over the breakup but doesn't necessarily want you back. She's probably very immature and convinced herself the breakup was entirely your fault. Same reason as my ex going post-breakup mental, hitting rebound central and posting some crazy story on Instagram on my bday.

 

{I'll wait for the inevitable regular posters to tell me how the breakup was my fault, how I treated her badly yada yada yada}

 

Best to ignore and keep doing your thing. That will be enough to mind fck with her.

 

Wow so far this is the most relatable i noticed that because today as well she using her friend again to post herself I wont bother untiil she reaches out first and thanks for the honest answer

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Wow so far this is the most relatable i noticed that because today as well she using her friend again to post herself I wont bother untiil she reaches out first and thanks for the honest answer

 

Oh and a little back story we talked for a month and a half literally all day and everyday we got along so well and when came back from my holiday we saw each other straight away...

 

We dated for another 2 weeks we saw eacch other pretty much everyday and she randomly went cold on me... for 2 days I asked what's wrong and she said this and I quote...

 

''We didn't talk for 2 days and the vibe kinda died'' I replied with ''So wtf are we done?'' She replied with ''Yeah''

 

She broke up with me over not talking for 2 days lol

 

Then next thing i see on her snapchat story is some guy random guy from her class apparently she liked when she was with me ( I didnt confornt her about it I didnt show any emotions I left it there i did try and make her jealous tho which led to her removing me)

 

Then 2 weeks later she messages me and wants to be friends and stuff which i agreed to for like 2 days and told her to move on she would still message me and watch all my stuff then i think a week later I posted some girl on my story which for some reason she unfollowed me but would still watch my stories from time to time...

 

She doesnt really watch them now rarely

 

That guy she was seeing apparently lasted 3 days according to another friend of hers in class and her best friend told me that she missed me and that her and him never dated apparently...

 

Then theres her ex that was before me that said she dated him for 2 weeks...

 

So at this point I dont know who to believe her ex (Who Im cool with) or her class mate and her best friend...

 

I dont know at this point... I really miss her still even tho its been like 2-3 months after break up but I really need honest opinions on what to think or what she thinks its really confusing but honesty would be much appreciated

 

I know i have to move on which I am but the thing is im starting my business administration apprenticeship at the same college as her and shes gonna see me unfortunately, when we dated I was broke to be honest but I was looking for stuff at the same time, She didnt seem to mind it but that could be one of the reasons she lost attractiion to me but going back to the ex she was with before me (They dated 10 months) I'm not sure if he's being genuine about it

 

Also the guy apparently she was with for 3 days watched my isntagram story for whatever reason.. Tried following my best friend and my ex gf's ex, this whole story makes no sense and its really messing with me right now...

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