Coffeemaniac Posted September 13, 2005 Share Posted September 13, 2005 I'm sorry but my dh isn't perfect, but he!!, he's pretty damn good... I mean, the way people complain around here... he's pretty fuchin good!! HELLOOOO..... Ladies, don't settle, but for goodness' sake don't sit there expecting Jesus H. Christ to walk through the door dressed in your husband's clothes and wearin' his stupid **** eatin' grin... Your man is going to make mistakes (I mean, don't get a disease or anything...) but my goodness, don't make him walk the line every night proving himself! You think he's going to stick around because you made some bad decisions before him?????? I thought I would come here to find some people who liked being married... I guess I was wrong... Link to post Share on other sites
Horse Posted September 13, 2005 Share Posted September 13, 2005 Those of us who like being married (most of the time) just don't have as much to complain about. But I agree if my wife expected what some of the women here seem to demand I would have hit the door running a long time ago. Link to post Share on other sites
Outcast Posted September 13, 2005 Share Posted September 13, 2005 I thought I would come here to find some people who liked being married... People who like being married don't need a 'love problems' forum. There are some happily married folks here but the majority aren't. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Coffeemaniac Posted September 13, 2005 Author Share Posted September 13, 2005 I'm sorry for my foul mood last night... things have been stressful and our marriage has been the great thing that keeps us strong. I come to the boards when I can't sleep, or want to talk... I guess I got a little irritated at how whiney people get I came to marriage forum just to try and steer clear of the pick-up lines. I didn't realize it was mainly for "love problems". Also, I apologize for my language. I don't usually talk like that. Take care, coffee Link to post Share on other sites
hyjacked Posted September 27, 2005 Share Posted September 27, 2005 Coffee I laughed my arse off at your thread!! I can identify with everything you said. I am stunned how what is little to nothing to me absolutly rocks the world for some couples. My wifey and I both feel so bad/ sad for married folks that will never know what a blast being married can be and what they are missing out on. And nope were not newlyweds. We"ve been together for about 9 yrs now and thats nearly 24/7 since she works for me. (married the secretary!) My wife is the most impressive person that walks this planet and I get to hang out with her all day everyday. We so much love being married it brings a look of nausiation at times from my 3 sons. I can also identify with those married couples with troubles & problems. The last 10 yrs of the 17 yr 1st marriage was a full regiment of man training compliments of one very control freaked 1st wife. My now wifey spent 18 yrs her 1st marriage to one very nasty narsistic personality disordered man. However my wife is gratefull to my 1st wife for training me so well! Her 1st hubby lefty me sitting pretty good as well. No matter what stupid man mistake I still manage it was no where in comparison what he did on a daily basis on purpose. Our secret for success is really no secret. We have both been so abused, knocked around and endured so much pain we dont want to miss any of our precious time left together causing pain to each other. motto we live by: DO YOU WANT TO BE RIGHT OR DO YOU WANT TO BE HAPPY? Link to post Share on other sites
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