xmoh Posted November 26, 2018 Share Posted November 26, 2018 Hi everyone, i just wants some help if i can find. i have a girlfriend and she faced a lot of bad words and bulling from her mom and she always be sad and even cant go to college she complain whats happen to me and i want to help here and i fell i cant she cry and I CRY more and more and my heart already dead i am trying to make here happy and she is but i can make here be positive because she heard big wrong words and its harm plz give me some tips to make here happy! thx ? Link to post Share on other sites
preraph Posted November 26, 2018 Share Posted November 26, 2018 Aww. That's sweet. I don't know how old she is, but it's sometimes the sad truth that until we get a job and can afford to move out of parents' house, we have to live by their rules. It is sad when a parent is a bully, or always critical and not loving. So to me, the best thing you can do is give her room to work toward her goal of getting her education, whatever she can get, and then maybe to find two jobs, one full-time and one part-time and quickly save her money into her OWN account so her mother can't get it, maybe have it direct-deposited, and in a few months, she may have enough to move out with some roommates. So don't take all her time. Give her room to study or work. Maybe one day she can send herself to college. So encourage her to just focus on making a living so she can get away from her mean parent. But encourage her to stay calm and polite while she's there so that the mean parent doesn't escalate. Good luck. Link to post Share on other sites
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