If nobody can see you , will you do it ?

[pepperbird]

OP,

when I read a post lie your, it always begs the question of "why" for a couple of reasons.

 

 

The first is if you love your children, family etc., as much as you say you do, you won;t do anything that will put them at risk. Anything. I know you think that sleeping around while away will never get back to your wife, but you couldn't be more wrong.

 

 

 

Add to that the fact that you are asking your wife and family to assume to risks without even asking them. You might think you can sleep with some stranger ( or FWB) and all will be well, but you have no idea what said ow may do afterwards. She may decide to blow your world apart, and if she does, you will have caused a huge level for the people you say you love.

 

 

You could be okay asking them to pay that price, but if the roles were reversed, would you be willing to go through all of that just so your wife can get some "strange"?

 

If it's reached the pint where you are willing to do that, then I would suggest you sit down with your wife and tell her that you aren't happy and would like to have sec outside your marriage. Give her the same option if she wants it.

[preraph]

You know, that's the difference right there between an ethical person and a cheater. And the tell is that the cheater always thinks the ethical person would also cheat if they could get away with it -- because that's how they think. An ethical person doesn't think like that. They want to make themselves proud.

[zouz71]

OP,

when I read a post lie your, it always begs the question of "why" for a couple of reasons.

 

 

The first is if you love your children, family etc., as much as you say you do, you won;t do anything that will put them at risk. Anything. I know you think that sleeping around while away will never get back to your wife, but you couldn't be more wrong. (1)

 

 

 

Add to that the fact that you are asking your wife and family to assume to risks without even asking them. You might think you can sleep with some stranger ( or FWB) and all will be well, but you have no idea what said ow may do afterwards. She may decide to blow your world apart, and if she does, you will have caused a huge level for the people you say you love.

 

 

You could be okay asking them to pay that price, but if the roles were reversed, would you be willing to go through all of that just so your wife can get some "strange"?

 

If it's reached the pint where you are willing to do that, then I would suggest you sit down with your wife and tell her that you aren't happy and would like to have sec outside your marriage. Give her the same option if she wants it.

 

 

When I attempted it few years back , I Freaked and came back to my wife and told her everything ...

I never Hide things.

[zouz71]

Thanks Elaine,

 

 

 

I understand your points , Just to clear out something , I am not planning to cheat , nor considering divorce , out of question , I do love my family and my wife .

 

 

Just ranting a bit about a frustration , I am fine , otherwise , I would have cheated long before.

 

 

I respect your opinin