get ex back

[break66]

Hi ALL ,

 

My ex broke up with me about 4 months by text .The reason for the break up is caring about her as she said, I didn’t communicate with her some days before the dumped me by text , she thought that I didn’t care about her .We have this issue many times before and she got in mad if I don't call her everyday.I explained her the reason that I didn’t communicate with her last time that I was busy with my job and I still in love with her so I begged her to stay with me ,but she said that it’s over and she didn’t see a future with me.I did NC rule for a month and half ,then I texted her about sth reminded me of her and she replied immediately the conversation was pretty well .Next day I texted here but never get a reply !!!!

I am doing NC rule again almost 2 months but she didn’t reach out me what should i do anything else?

 

Thanks

[HumanMachine]

Do anything else for what? She’s not coming back.

[carhill]

Welcome to LS....

 

Is it normal in your culture for women to be firm in their consideration for a breakup or do they normally waffle?

 

How long together?

 

How was the sex?

 

Usually these things don't come out of the blue. There are many signs.

 

Do you think that, if you're persistent, you'll get her back? Does that usually work for the men in your culture?

[ExpatInItaly]

I think she realized you two are not compatible and her interest level dropped to the point where she didn't want to continue.

 

She is someone who needs more frequent communication, while you're okay with a day without. You said this had happened before, so you both knew where each other stood. It just isn't a match together.

 

There is no point trying to re-engage if you already did and were met with silence when you tried to keep up communication the following day. She's moved on.