jess060191 Posted December 10, 2018 Share Posted December 10, 2018 Hi everyone, I have posted on here a couple of times about my ex. The Ex that for whatever reason I can not let go, the ex who broke my heart. I am honestly thinking about seeing a therapist/counselor about it... maybe get some answers why I am so stuck on him. But anyways, it was over a month of no contact with my ex. I was doing so WELL so strong. I had a slip up...So I messaged him saying hope he is doing well and that i miss him. He responded we talked for a bit and I asked him if he was seeing someone. He said he was not seeing anyone... I'm like well you talking to someone then? And he said "No. I am going to respond to the question with no.. Its a weird long story" And then I told him he moves on quickly (jokingly) which he responded well I kind of had to you told me you wanted to move on... So he asked me if I was seeing someone and I said no (the truth) and that I would like to work it out with him and if he would too? He responded with IDK... but hes like not in a bad way (which i dont know what that even meant).... We talked a little bit more from there... haven't heard from him today yet... Even though I want to so badly... I keep on checking my phone to see if he messages me. I feel like I am back at square one... SIGH. Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted December 10, 2018 Share Posted December 10, 2018 You are back to square one or maybe 1.5. Anyway, has your EX solved his homelessness yet? If he has not, this man still has nothing to give you because all of his energy is focused on his genuine crisis. You broke up over a miscommunication. You tried to reconcile but he doesn't want to put in the effort to keep alive a relationship with a woman who lives 2 hours away from him. Getting some therapy to determine why you are still hanging on might help. Because he was talking to you I think he's a nice guy. That doesn't mean he wants to get back together. The distance alone makes dating you more work then he wants to deal with. Link to post Share on other sites
Author jess060191 Posted December 10, 2018 Author Share Posted December 10, 2018 he has just moved into a new place.... he has reached out to me today.... should i get my hopes up and even try again? you have really good memory btw, i appreciate you lol. Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted December 10, 2018 Share Posted December 10, 2018 I don't have a good memory. I clicked on your name & your other posts show up. You can get your hopes up a millimeter but no more. Maybe since his homelessness is rectified, he can put some energy into a relationship but that still doesn't solve the distance. In an optimistic vein, if you want to reach out & ask if he's having a housewarming or sort of invite yourself to see the new place try that. If they don't get enthusiastic responses, assume reconciliation is off the table. Link to post Share on other sites
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