MissingHerBad Posted September 14, 2005 Share Posted September 14, 2005 Im back - its been a while so if anyone remembers me then a big hello! So I havent talked to my ex all summer and its been almost a year since we broke up. Heres the thing -> She recently comes on MSN "U There," it says... I just play it off... I week later she comes on again and sais a whole bunch of stuff while Im away including the fact that she wanted to meet for coffee not just talk about it like we've done in the past.... I played it off for another two weeks while I was away. I then wrote her a very breif email saying whats up and that I would drop her a line when I get back from vacation... She replied, then I replied then yesterday she wrote me an email saying that she was "always thinking" about me. She then goes on to make another refrence about thinking of me and this song that she had just dowloaded talking about her being in my arms.... Im satisfied that I could turn my back and walk and survive but I still love this girl more then anything in the world. Should I put it past me.... PS. She may still have a bf of less then a year - we went out for two - two of what she claims where the best times of her life Link to post Share on other sites
francis Posted September 14, 2005 Share Posted September 14, 2005 be careful, she may have broken up with the other guy and is looking for some affirmation from an easy target, YOU. This could be emotional stirring to see where your feelings lie. An ego boost for her now she's feeling lonely. Don't trust her intentions, just be careful and protect your heart. Hold back until you can suss out her true motive. Link to post Share on other sites
bluechocolate Posted September 14, 2005 Share Posted September 14, 2005 Are you still a DJ? If I remember correctly that was a big issue for her. She may still have a bf of less then a year She may? That's one thing you need to find out for sure before making any decisions. I'm satisfied that I could turn my back and walk and survive but I still love this girl more then anything in the world. Should I put it past me.... You're how old? 23 or something? She's definitely putting feelers out - but in my opinion you should put it past you. Remember all the heartache & bulls*** she dealt you? You spent 2 years with this girl & broke up a year ago - time for something new - that's what I say. And if I want to be really cynical about it I'd say she's playing you. Things not so great with the current guy? Never mind, I know MHB still has the hots for me, I'll get my ego stroked from him. But if you're really interested in a second chance then you should be upfront with her. Ask her what her game is. Is she still with that guy? And if so, why she's doing the lovey-dovey bit with you? If she's not with the guy then ask her straight up what her intentions are. Link to post Share on other sites
Drivetildriven Posted September 15, 2005 Share Posted September 15, 2005 Francis and Blue, that sounds right on the money. I'd be skeptical. Don't be her fall back guy or a damn consolation. Chances are she'll do it to you again. Link to post Share on other sites
Author MissingHerBad Posted September 16, 2005 Author Share Posted September 16, 2005 You guys are so right.. and yes I am still djing but I have plans to retire very soon... talked to her again today - just being friendly, it was over msn and I didnt give out any vibe just being polite Link to post Share on other sites
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