Is it possible to find?

[danni_weston]

Ok, so this will be out of the scope for most minds, so please dont feel like you have to reply (unless you have an open mind).

 

My first relationship 16-18 ended up in her cheating, from her p.o.v because she was curious whatelse was out there (fair enough for anyone that age). got into another relationship quite quickly 18-22 - this partner was very inexperienced I ended due to it going no where (but we literally ended up having sex every few months if that).

 

the next relationship i was in 23-28 was great and loving, knew she was cheating didnt say anything to her about it (knew it turned me on a bit), eventually came to head - ended. after that had a few on/off relationships until recently.

 

my main issue is, I know (fully accept without being insecure/over compensating wierdo) my "short comings"..... what i was wondering, how do you approach start something with a new girl when you are basically saying:

 

- i have a small C*** (yeah can be fun but long term you'll want more)

- its ok if u want / actually would encourage to stop the resentment of feeling you're not getting enough - to have other

- love and sex are individual feeling, allowing someone you love enjoy new/other sexual experiences can be amazing

- providing/loving and giving the world to a partner is my dream. i dont think not having a 10" C*** makes me any less of a guy (providing financially and emotionally for your partner is what makes a guy).

 

 

all i get is really freaky/wierdos that you wouldnt date in a million years, or people that are still clearly in love with their ex's wanting to vent..

 

any feedback/ideas would be great.!?

[Garcon1986]

I would start out with writing down what you want very clearly. We all have our physical imperfections - just start out on the right foot and you won't repeatedly attract the wrong people. Seek out the crowd you want from the beginning, and know that some will penalize you for your physical shortcomings - that risk is eternally there in dating - but seek out what you want and make it clear from the start.

[preraph]

I'm 66, so you know. The only woman I've known who was a strict size queen screened the average to smaller ones out before she had sex with them. She looked at their fingers, to start with and chose guys with really big long fingers. Eliminated others. Then since that's not 100%, she would make out and in this process, of course, you can easily by putting your hand there what's down there. She did that with one guy she passed down to me because I didn't care he was average. She just got far enough to find out and then didn't go any further. So I think someone for whom size is a dealbreaker is already going to eliminate you without waiting until you're naked in bed to do it. So stop worrying about it, stop talking about it, and the women you'll date now aren't quite as young, I assume, and will know what to look for. If they keep wanting to get to know you and make out, they don't care that much. And of course, size can be compensated for by simply being great with your hands for most people. Good luck.

[snowboy91]

- i have a small C*** (yeah can be fun but long term you'll want more)

 

- providing/loving and giving the world to a partner is my dream. i dont think not having a 10" C*** makes me any less of a guy (providing financially and emotionally for your partner is what makes a guy).

 

Ok, so these two points together - you sound worried about being small but then you say that it doesn't make you less of a guy? I'm a bit confused about what you really think about it. But I'll just say that generally it's not about the size, it's about how you use it

 

Your other points sound like you're after a relationship where you're not expecting exclusivity and want your partner to be free to explore, so essentially an open relationship, am I correct? Others who share that mindset are difficult to find, but not impossible. It will take quite a lot of time to find someone like that, so you will need to be patient and keep putting yourself out there.