BC1980 Posted December 21, 2018 Share Posted December 21, 2018 Good questions. My motivation is just to leave the door open, but at the same time I'm not going to stop living if she never does. My other motivation is just to also be friends someday. We had a lot of fun together and I find the older I get the harder it is to find people you really get along with, especially of the opposite sex. But if I knew for 100% nothing was going to happen, then I'd probably just keep her on there. You're right about hurt feelings and not responding. But I don't even intend on writing her first again. What's funny is I can almost tell she went out of her way to thoroughly respond to all the random people on FB that said happy birthday to her, but didn't respond to me. In some weird way, I think she wants me to chase her, but it isn't going to happen lol I'm talking to another woman now so I'm definitely not putting my life on hold for her. She doesn't post much, but she is on FB a lot. But I would not really get much from her FB in terms of what is going on in her life. I post frequently, but it's all positive things like career advancements, workout vids, pics with friends. If anything the stuff I post would show her my life is just fine without her. Maybe you could try unfollowing her and reassess how you feel in a few months. I've unfollowed people, and I forgot they even existed. It is harder the older you get because people tend to have baggage from past relationships. I've definitely found that to be true. Link to post Share on other sites
loversquarrel Posted December 22, 2018 Share Posted December 22, 2018 What is the point in not deleting someone from your social media? If they don't want to be with you take the hint and get rid of them and move on with your life. If they want to be with you they will, if not then why the need to stay connected without being connected? Link to post Share on other sites
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