Noemiforever43 Posted December 23, 2018 Share Posted December 23, 2018 I am always attempting to be a (good EX) but I always end up dealing with The worst end of the whole situation, is almost like I created the cheating and the anger, I know my soon tobe ex husband has a brain injury, but just recently I found out by his mom, that his TBI as not as deep is he made it sound.. So I am so angry, over all the lying on his side to avoid resposability for us as a couple. Unfortunely I am at the end of my road, But I like to see if anyone has any advise on how to do this , I have not initiated divorced, but will do by the middle of January 2019, but as of today my dilemma is he supposed to have the kids on certain days, but he never calls me to arrange and then, if i don't call him to remind him, he gets mad... If i remind him he gets mad??? anybody outhere what should I do??? Link to post Share on other sites
Mr. Lucky Posted December 23, 2018 Share Posted December 23, 2018 my dilemma is he supposed to have the kids on certain days Based on what agreement? Written or oral? Mr. Lucky Link to post Share on other sites
Author Noemiforever43 Posted December 23, 2018 Author Share Posted December 23, 2018 I am always attempting to be a (good EX) but I always end up dealing with The worst end of the whole situation, is almost like I created the cheating and the anger, I know my soon tobe ex husband has a brain injury, but just recently I found out by his mom, that his TBI as not as deep is he made it sound.. So I am so angry, over all the lying on his side to avoid resposability for us as a couple. Unfortunely I am at the end of my road, But I like to see if anyone has any advise on how to do this , I have not initiated divorced, but will do by the middle of January 2019, but as of today my dilemma is he supposed to have the kids on certain days, but he never calls me to arrange and then, if i don't call him to remind him, he gets mad... If i remind him he gets mad??? anybody outhere what should I do??? it has been an oral agreement, but he just never keeps the agreement, if it wasn't because I try to keep the schedule, by me dropping off the kids, he would not come to get them... Link to post Share on other sites
stillafool Posted January 3, 2019 Share Posted January 3, 2019 it has been an oral agreement, but he just never keeps the agreement, if it wasn't because I try to keep the schedule, by me dropping off the kids, he would not come to get them... What? Then they aren't important to him. You should move out of Texas and move to where your family lives to support you through this divorce. Link to post Share on other sites
Malin889 Posted January 3, 2019 Share Posted January 3, 2019 it has been an oral agreement, but he just never keeps the agreement, if it wasn't because I try to keep the schedule, by me dropping off the kids, he would not come to get them... Does he not have a car? I just ask because my ex assumes because I have a car and he doesn’t that I always have to drive my daughter to and from his house. He’s a real class act. Link to post Share on other sites
amaysngrace Posted January 3, 2019 Share Posted January 3, 2019 I have a car and he doesn’t...I always have to drive my daughter to and from his house. That’s what Uber is for. Link to post Share on other sites
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