foxy418 Posted December 24, 2018 Share Posted December 24, 2018 My dad has a good heart but has many issues because of his childhood. I believe he also has aspergers, and has no social skills. He has zero friends and problems with almost everyone on a daily basis. Sometimes he acts like a 5 year old boy. Other times he thinks its funny to hurt someones feelings. 15 years ago I cut my dad out of my life for a year. I stopped answering his calls etc. Mainly because he would yell at me and be mean. I hated him so much that i just had enough. Since then he has gotten better with me and even though he would sometimes say mean things, i was the one that had the most patience with him. Fast forward 15 years, i am married with kids and living in a different country than my parents. I have not seen my dad in 1 year so.him and my mum decided to come to spend 3 weeks with me. The first week was ok but the next week things got bad. He was mean to my mum and i defended her, and he stopped talking to the both of us. Its been 5 days now. And i even tried to talk to him and make things better but he acts like im invisable. I am so embarrased because my husband is seeing how he is. He has ruined my entire week and is still continuing to do so. Tomorrow is christmas and im pretty sure i want it to be the last christmas with him. The hate i felt 15 years ago has come back. I do not understand how my mum stays with him, shes 100% financially dependant on him so thats the OnLy reason i can think of. He makes her cry so much, he disrespects her and she lets it. He ruined her if anything. Now the only diffwrence now is that i have children and he is close with them. If i cut him off he will be cut off from them. My mum wills suffer too because of this. What should i do??? Link to post Share on other sites
Mrschaney Posted December 24, 2018 Share Posted December 24, 2018 (edited) He acts this way because it is allowed. Sit him down and politely tell him to knock it off or risk never getting another invitation to see his grandchildren. I bet he’ll straighten up his act.Your mother has allowed it to long, but you can make him behave in your house. Edited December 24, 2018 by Mrschaney Link to post Share on other sites
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