Scamming women...

[alphamale]

OK... If you know a woman likes you already or you're pretty sure she'd go out with you here is how you get into her pants easily. I've done this many times and it almost always works. The key here is to play this on a number of women so that you have a date for each weekend cause there is a built in time delay for each woman... he he he

 

Scenario 1

OK...you meet some chick on the internet and email back and forth for a week or two and exchange pics. When you establish that she would be interested in meeting you totally stop all communication with her. Then, about four to six weeks later you send her and email giving her some bullshyt story about being out of town for work or some other legitimate-sounding lie like you cousin kicked-the-bucket. She will be even more into you now cause you did not come off as a dependent loser and you have other priorities and don't need women. Then you take her out and show her a good time and sex is almost guaranteed!!

 

Scenario 2

You meet some bird at a bar or whereever and get her phone number. Then, you call her about a week later (at initial mtg you told her you'd call within a week) and chat her up and plan a date with her for a set night. Then....the night before the date you call her up and tell her you need to cancel cause some impt emergency happened (make it up!) and you're so upset and you'll try to call her within next few weeks if you feel up to it. Tell her you're real sorry and totally ham it up. Then...you call her like a month later and tell her your sad story (made up, of course) and you really want to see her. Then you take her out and show her a good time and sex is almost guaranteed!!

[tanbark813]

I just sing Moondance.

[sanne]

OK... If you know a woman likes you already or you're pretty sure she'd go out with you here is how you get into her pants easily. I've done this many times and it almost always works. The key here is to play this on a number of women so that you have a date for each weekend cause there is a built in time delay for each woman... he he he

 

Scenario 1

OK...you meet some chick on the internet and email back and forth for a week or two and exchange pics. When you establish that she would be interested in meeting you totally stop all communication with her. Then, about four to six weeks later you send her and email giving her some bullshyt story about being out of town for work or some other legitimate-sounding lie like you cousin kicked-the-bucket. She will be even more into you now cause you did not come off as a dependent loser and you have other priorities and don't need women. Then you take her out and show her a good time and sex is almost guaranteed!!

 

Scenario 2

You meet some bird at a bar or whereever and get her phone number. Then, you call her about a week later (at initial mtg you told her you'd call within a week) and chat her up and plan a date with her for a set night. Then....the night before the date you call her up and tell her you need to cancel cause some impt emergency happened (make it up!) and you're so upset and you'll try to call her within next few weeks if you feel up to it. Tell her you're real sorry and totally ham it up. Then...you call her like a month later and tell her your sad story (made up, of course) and you really want to see her. Then you take her out and show her a good time and sex is almost guaranteed!!

 

that's too much damn work bro. how bout you just be honest and yourself and see how that goes........haha

[ThumbingMyWay]

all this work and lies just to get some cake.....

 

man...sometimes I am glad I am married.....

[Moai]

While I am sure that would work, I don't think you have to put out that much effort. I realized that women are way different toward you if you start out playfully teasing her. The prettier she is, the better this works.

 

Let her initiate any physical contact, and every so often compliment her--but one compliment for every ten times you rip on her for something. It's gotta be playful and not mean.

 

Always be confident, like don't ask, "If you want to" or "Do you think you'd go out with me?" EVER. Just say, "I'm going out for a steak, you can go if you want."

 

Never talk too much on the phone. Then she takes you for granted and gets you for free. Five minutes max.

 

Take your time. Don't ever push anything.

 

I thought that this was all crap, too, but I tried it on a really pretty girl who has been coming into my second job lately (bartender), and she finally asked me out, we hung out, had fun, and I had sex. She is really cool and I want to see her again, but I am not pushing it or calling her all the time. She has to see you as a challenege or you are screwed.

 

I tried the being nice and genuine route forever, but all I got wa lots of friends and a heart full of rejection--for the most part. I always wondered why girls I liked didn't like me that way, and the girls I didn't like were all over me. And that's why. Treat the ones you like as if you don't care one way or the other and you're in.

 

Make sure that you are always a gentleman and never, ever mistreat a woman, you just act like a man, basically. It is amazing how well it works.

[Art_Critic]

Scenario 1

OK...you meet some chick on the internet and email back and forth for a week or two and exchange pics. When you establish that she would be interested in meeting you totally stop all communication with her. Then, about four to six weeks later you send her and email giving her some bullshyt story about being out of town for work or some other legitimate-sounding lie like you cousin kicked-the-bucket. She will be even more into you now cause you did not come off as a dependent loser and you have other priorities and don't need women. Then you take her out and show her a good time and sex is almost guaranteed!!

 

Okay Alpha.. I've done Scenario 1 once and after the 4-6 weeks they had moved on.. So it didn't work.. I think that a girl thinks that you aren't interested when you go silent and when you pop back up they are like "f-off"

[alphamale]

Make sure that you are always a gentleman and never, ever mistreat a woman, you just act like a man, basically. It is amazing how well it works.

yes MOAI you are correct in all respects but you would do this stuff after you do my stuff.... my stuff is just the initial part which will pique her interest and not make you come off as desperate, etc...

[alphamale]

Okay Alpha.. I've done Scenario once and after the 4-6 weeks they had moved on.. So it didn't work.. I think that a girl thinks that you aren't interested when you go silent and when you pop back up they are like "f-off"

yes some may tell you to f*** off A_C but the majority will respond positively if and only if they liked you to begin with. For example, on a dating site if she contacted you first. The key is that you have to know that she likes you at least a little or is likely to go out with you. These scenarios won't work on a woman who is indifferent or does not like you.

[RainyDayWoman]

why not just be a normal person and see what works out?

 

or is your "normal person" not good enough? (that's not a dig, by the way, it's an honest question. i like you, alpha.)

 

it can't possibly be this difficult to get a woman in bed that you have to resort to this complicated mess you call a strategy.

 

don't get me wrong, as a woman i'm not even close to offended. i just don't understand why you (or any guy) need to do this?

 

maybe i just know easy women.

[Moai]

Totally. And there is a fine line between going too soon or too far. You can't wait a more than ten day before you call, but shouldn't call for at least five days, either.

 

And the setting up the month by making up some story is great, but I feel funny lying to get laid, personally. I am honest the whole time, I just send my feelings out in different ways.

[lost_in_chgo]

Alpha-

A whack over the head with a baseball bat and some rope is more straightforward, less work, and it's a more caring approach.

[Pyro]

why not just be a normal person and see what works out?

 

it can't possibly be this difficult to get a woman in bed that you have to resort to this complicated mess you call a strategy.

 

don't get me wrong, as a woman i'm not even close to offended. i just don't understand why you (or any guy) need to do this?

 

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I totally agree. Anyone who agrees to this crap is just too afraid to be themselves around other people. I don't understand it either.

 

I have been told by people that they like me because I am an honest person and that i don't put on an act to anyone.

 

You can still score with women by being yourself.

[Moai]

why not just be a normal person and see what works out?

 

Because that almost always results in another friend. And that isn't a bad thing if that's what you want, but if you want a girlfriend you're killing yourself. Look at men you know who have lots of women after them romantically. Watch how they act. It is more important than looks or money or anything. And it isn't like it works on ANY woman, it only works on the ones who will more than "hi" to you. And that is a lot of women, but certainly not all.

 

or is your "normal person" not good enough? (that's not a dig, by the way, it's an honest question. i like you, alpha.)

 

I know you aren't asking me that, but in my case my normal person is more than enough. But, 99% of the time I get a girl who loves to hang out talk about EVERYTHING--including other men.

 

Think about how many women are totally in love with jerks. Now, you don't want to be a jerk, but you want to emulate the parts of the jerk that keep them attractive. Once you add nice guy to that, you have got something!

 

it can't possibly be this difficult to get a woman in bed that you have to resort to this complicated mess you call a strategy.

 

It is. Attraction is a funny thing. Unless you are extremely good looking or famous or play guitar it's harder than splitting the atom, unless you behave the right way. Challenege is the single biggest aphrodisiac there is.

[alphamale]

why not just be a normal person and see what works out?

define "normal" RDW...and usually being yourself or "normal" does not work for most dudes...

 

it can't possibly be this difficult to get a woman in bed that you have to resort to this complicated mess you call a strategy.

It works, i've used it a number of times....and its not complicated at all, its easy

 

maybe i just know easy women.

my scenarios apply to good-looking women who are in demand

[quankanne]

I just sing Moondance

 

I'm there, baby!

 

my scenarios apply to good-looking women who are in demand

 

any suggestions for the females on how to score a hot-looking guy who's in high demand? Besides beer and a slinky outfit, that is ...

 

I think Fez on "That 70s Show" said it best, when explaining why he preferred hitting on older women: "They're very appreciative ..."

[Moai]

my scenarios apply to good-looking women who are in demand

 

It's true. The prettier they are, the better it works.

 

Think about it. Pretty girls get guys hitting on them all the time, by nice guys. "Let me buy you dinner" 'Do you think you'd ever want to date me?" and all that lame crap. Do that, and you are one of thousands.

 

But, if you don't kiss her ass all the time and act like you get women all the time, you are one in a million and she'll be into you. She'll ask herself, "Why not me?" and do what she can to have you see her as special.

[alphamale]

any suggestions for the females on how to score a hot-looking guy who's in high demand?

QUANK...just do the same things but in reverse....women can do this to men just as easily, and it works!

[quankanne]

I dunno Alpha, most guys I know don't give in to mystery and allure from women ... and they tend to place more emphasis on the package than the personality. At least this is what I remember from the meat-locker days :D

[JS17]

Scenario 2

You meet some bird at a bar or whereever and get her phone number. Then, you call her about a week later (at initial mtg you told her you'd call within a week) and chat her up and plan a date with her for a set night. Then....the night before the date you call her up and tell her you need to cancel cause some impt emergency happened (make it up!) and you're so upset and you'll try to call her within next few weeks if you feel up to it. Tell her you're real sorry and totally ham it up. Then...you call her like a month later and tell her your sad story (made up, of course) and you really want to see her. Then you take her out and show her a good time and sex is almost guaranteed!!

 

I never go out with any guy who cancels the first date, period, end of story. NEXT

[alphamale]

I dunno Alpha, most guys I know don't give in to mystery and allure from women ... and they tend to place more emphasis on the package than the personality. At least this is what I remember from the meat-locker days :D

it'll only work on dudes who have at least half a brain and also like you to begin with

[whichwayisup]

Scenario 1

OK...you meet some chick on the internet and email back and forth for a week or two and exchange pics. When you establish that she would be interested in meeting you totally stop all communication with her. Then, about four to six weeks later you send her and email giving her some bullshyt story about being out of town for work or some other legitimate-sounding lie like you cousin kicked-the-bucket. She will be even more into you now cause you did not come off as a dependent loser and you have other priorities and don't need women. Then you take her out and show her a good time and sex is almost guaranteed!!

 

Yeah right! Maybe SOME women would fall for that...4-6 weeks and ya don't hear from the guy?? Then he gets intouch - Uhmm, chances are she's given up and moved onto somebody new.

 

IF your plan is to work, 4-10 days, after that you're wasting your time. Geez Alpha, you're going soft on me eh!

 

Scenario 2

You meet some bird at a bar or whereever and get her phone number. Then, you call her about a week later (at initial mtg you told her you'd call within a week) and chat her up and plan a date with her for a set night. Then....the night before the date you call her up and tell her you need to cancel cause some impt emergency happened (make it up!) and you're so upset and you'll try to call her within next few weeks if you feel up to it. Tell her you're real sorry and totally ham it up. Then...you call her like a month later and tell her your sad story (made up, of course) and you really want to see her. Then you take her out and show her a good time and sex is almost guaranteed!!

 

You're full of s*** Alpha. If you honestly believe that will work, you're nuts! Or the women who fall for that crap are seriously lookin' for rollercoaster ride that will end in some pain.

[alphamale]

You're full of s*** Alpha.

that's highly possible WWIU

 

If you honestly believe that will work, you're nuts! Or the women who fall for that crap are seriously lookin' for rollercoaster ride that will end in some pain.

two words: IT WORKS

[alphamale]

I never go out with any guy who cancels the first date, period, end of story. NEXT

if you liked the guy and he gave you a good excuse then you would go out with him at a later date JS17. You know it, I know it. End of story.

[whichwayisup]

that's highly possible WWIU

 

 

two words: IT WORKS

 

Good, just making sure...

 

OK it works but there are SO many other ways about getting laid! I guess I don't "get" the logic into scamming somebody to have sex with you. If you want that then why not try that hick-town white trash chicky-poo! I'll sure she's in for the ride!

[whichwayisup]

if you liked the guy and he gave you a good excuse then you would go out with him at a later date JS17. You know it, I know it. End of story.

 

Maybe face to face, but not if they met on the internet!