MCarpenter Posted January 1, 2019 Share Posted January 1, 2019 A letter and a gift to a strangers Happy New Year I'd like to ask all of you women if this might hurt or make you happy. The last thing I want is to hurt a person I like the most beautiful woman. but never met her but we have talked and shared pictures over the last few weeks my birthday coming soon. then she would send me a gift.her birthday is only few days later of course I send one back to her. because we live 2500mils apart ----------------------------------------------------------------------------------- The Gift.. over Christmas I have spent many hours . 50-60 hours i think I have made a small Heart necklace with a light frame of tree roots. to hold the heart in place The Heart made out of "Rosewood" The wood is red The Roots made out of "Ebony " The wood is black ----------------------------------------------------------------------------------- The letter Dear Her Name Congratulations on your 29th birthday. I hope this little gift that I have made for you. will give you a smile Wood is not like gold or silver. Wood will always be unique. just like you are. The Heart is made out of Rosewood. with all its beauty and faults that is what makes it unique and one of a kind. The Roots is made out of Abony. may not look like much but it´s incredibly strong And yet still fragile. I wish you all the best Best wishes My name ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------- My question is this too much and over the top there is no guarantee that we will meet or that we like each, other and we can meet at the earliest 6-7 months from now do not want to hurt her in anyway ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------- If you have come so far I thank you would like to thank you all Regards This Old Fool Link to post Share on other sites
Garcon1986 Posted January 1, 2019 Share Posted January 1, 2019 Happy new Year and Welcome to Loveshack. If she is a grown woman with her own job, some dating experience, and is at all picky with her dates - she may interpret your gift as being over the top and obsessive (why is a man I never met and never seen in person sending me gifts)? This is likely going to make her like you less. Your best bet is to meet her first, establish that she is real and not an online dating scam, and then get to showcase your personality. Being obsessed with a woman is only cute when you are in high school. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
smackie9 Posted January 1, 2019 Share Posted January 1, 2019 (edited) If there is passion between you two, then it would be very sweet and appreciated. If this is a foreigner looking for a sugar daddy hoping for someone to sucker into giving some fine jewelry, she will be greatly disappointed and will ghost. If you two are chat buddies, and show some fondness, then yes it's a bit much for something that romantic. IMO it's suspicious that she would mention giving and receiving a BDay gift with a stranger she has only been talking to for only a couple of weeks. I would hold off getting this involved with a virtual stranger. Edited January 1, 2019 by smackie9 Link to post Share on other sites
Giraffe-A Posted January 1, 2019 Share Posted January 1, 2019 Many great things happen when you risk it all and you really do have to be a fool most of the time. But I feel your gift and letter are beautiful. I hope this works out for you. Link to post Share on other sites
ExpatInItaly Posted January 1, 2019 Share Posted January 1, 2019 Why can't you meet for another 6 or 7 months? Though I am sure your heart is in the right place and the sentiment is sweet, the gift and the letter are more appropriate for a girlfriend, not a stranger you've only known a few weeks. I don't see how it would hurt her, but it might make her uncomfortable. Link to post Share on other sites
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