Is there such a thing as people jinxing a new relationship?

[Joyce Simmons]

Like do people believe that if you share your happiness in the early stages of dating or you met someone new, that it’s bad luck? Let’s say you met a new person or you think a guy is cute/have a crush, then you tell someone then for whatever reason it doesn’t work out, it’s bad to tell? I’ve had a few ppl tell me this

[Geraltt]

Luck doesn't enter into it.

 

 

I'm a little confused by your wording (my fault; I need another coffee). Do you mean to say that if you say to someone else that it might not work out, that doesn't bode well for the relationship?

 

 

Or do you mean that someone else is telling you that this might not work out?

 

 

I'm a little befuddled as to what you mean.

[chillii]

Talking about a crush doesn't really matter a crush is nothing anyway.

But say during the early stages of a real relationship, yeah , l believe saying too much to other people outside of that , can really do some damage and setup weird pressures and all kinds of shyt.

Same with introducing somebody too soon oh meet my friends or meet family stuff, it's crazy you need to get to know each other a bit first.

 

Imo a new couple need at least a few mths to themselves even 5 or 6 to just be together and to enjoy just being themselves and to just see what it all is.

Chances are most will be split up by then anyway so non of the intro'ing or blabbing stuff even matters and your business is still your own.

Edited January 2, 2019 by chillii

[edgygirl]

Don't expect people who are not spiritual to understand your question.

 

Yes. I do believe in energy. It seems whenever I tell a specific friend who's terribly single about my new crush/date prospect, things go South. I think I am just going to stop telling her. It just happened again.

[d0nnivain]

No.

 

You don't jinx it by sharing your happiness. What you probably do is get overly excited & that transmits to your new SO who freaks because you are too much.

 

There is nothing mystical about it but you have to remember to pace yourself.

[thefooloftheyear]

Nope...

 

But I have seen women sabotage other women's relationships..They even do it to their friends and family...In fact, in my own family, there are several women that don't talk to one another for this reason...None of the guys do it, its something that women do,

 

I don't know why they do it, but I have seen it more than enough times for it not to be coincidental...

 

TFY

[Giraffe-A]

No. It’s just the way dating goes. Kinda like not announcing the pregnancy until after month 3 or whatever as there’s a high probability of miscarrying within the window. Same with dating. These days new dates last a day, 2 weeks or 5 months and then disappear. It would be wise to date the person for a while, then after a few months when you guys make it official that it will be exclusive, then you can introduce them to friends and family.