TheRainbow Posted January 3, 2019 Share Posted January 3, 2019 There has been so much negativity, in my life, and on this forum, and just in life in general dealing with relationships in general. So I thought instead of focusing on the negative, why not make a list of positive things about our partner. I'll start. My husband is: hard working loyal compassionate patient forgiving sexually satisfying attractive 3 Link to post Share on other sites
Logo Posted January 3, 2019 Share Posted January 3, 2019 There has been so much negativity, in my life, and on this forum, and just in life in general dealing with relationships in general. So I thought instead of focusing on the negative, why not make a list of positive things about our partner. I'll start. My husband is: hard working loyal compassionate patient forgiving sexually satisfying attractive He sounds like a keeper. I don't have a significant other right now, but those would be great attributes for a woman too. Good idea for a thread. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
chillii Posted January 3, 2019 Share Posted January 3, 2019 (edited) She's an incredible person A really hard worker she's funny pretty weird , like me. has more instinct,soul and passion in one hand than anyone l've ever known very supportive , very understanding and very broad and open minded. great to talk to fun warm very loving she just gets me great looking and body and she is really, really , and more really's but that's all l'm saying on that And too many other things about her and us to mention. But she's not perfect , we're not perfect , l'm not perfect , there are things, but she's still all of that and much much more. Edited January 3, 2019 by chillii 2 Link to post Share on other sites
pepperbird Posted January 3, 2019 Share Posted January 3, 2019 There has been so much negativity, in my life, and on this forum, and just in life in general dealing with relationships in general. So I thought instead of focusing on the negative, why not make a list of positive things about our partner. I'll start. My husband is: hard working loyal compassionate patient forgiving sexually satisfying attractive I really like that you have started this thread. It can be so easy to get bogged down in negativity about your spouse ( BTDT), and it can be helpful to remind yourself of why you love them in the first place. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
pepperbird Posted January 3, 2019 Share Posted January 3, 2019 There has been so much negativity, in my life, and on this forum, and just in life in general dealing with relationships in general. So I thought instead of focusing on the negative, why not make a list of positive things about our partner. I'll start. My husband is: hard working loyal compassionate patient forgiving sexually satisfying attractive Have you shown your husband this list? I bet seeing it would bring a big smile to his face. If you don't mind a suggetsion, how about keeping a journal of sorts where, every day, you write down something he said/did that made you happy, shows he cares and that you appreciate. Share thoughts about your dreams for the future with him and why you are happy to have him in your life. Don't worry about the language and grammar, just speak from your heart. Do that for a month, and then give him the journal to read. He might really appreciate that. btw...if I haven't already mentioned it, I greatly admire the way both you and your husband have chosen to handle all of this. You are stepping up and taking responsibility ( as the saying goes- you're doing the heavy lifting) and your husband is showing much compassion and grace. It's just my own opinion, but the two of you are providing an object lesson in how, if a husband and wife are both willing to both lay themselves bare and put the hard work in, they can recover from just about anything. I wish your fmaily the best of luck and happy future ahead. Link to post Share on other sites
gaius Posted January 3, 2019 Share Posted January 3, 2019 Those lips, those breasts, that ass. The first time I saw a picture I thought I was getting catfished because she was exactly my ideal fantasy woman but it was all real. I'm getting excited just writing this post and thinking about it. But beyond the sexy exterior, she's smart, insightful, determined, an amazing mother, all the things I respect in a woman. She's brought me to the next level as a man. It's been a blessing to have her in my life and I'm grateful for every day we get to spend together. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Happy Lemming Posted January 3, 2019 Share Posted January 3, 2019 I have to give my girlfriend credit. She puts up with me and has been doing so for almost 7 years. In addition to what others have posted, I'd like to add: Kind Intelligent Doesn’t try to change me Not too demanding Good Communicator Our relationship is not perfect, by any stretch, but it is (by far) my longest relationship and I am happy. Link to post Share on other sites
Wallysbears Posted January 3, 2019 Share Posted January 3, 2019 He's my rock and I can ALWAYS count on him. Link to post Share on other sites
Geraltt Posted January 3, 2019 Share Posted January 3, 2019 (edited) I love this idea. So often, all we hear/read about are complaints. My SO is: Kind Intelligent Warm Loving Committed to her profession Very funny Loves to travel Independent Great cook Atheist Appreciative Patient Adventurous Financially secure In short, she's everything I've ever wanted in a partner! Edited January 3, 2019 by Geraltt formatting Link to post Share on other sites
Mr. Lucky Posted January 3, 2019 Share Posted January 3, 2019 My wife is nice to her core, generous and seems to intuitively know the right thing to say or do with other people. She is slow to anger and quick to forgive and sees our marriage as a whole, not just today's good or bad vibe. It must be true, opposites do attract... Mr. Lucky 1 Link to post Share on other sites
major_merrick Posted January 4, 2019 Share Posted January 4, 2019 My husband is: Physically affectionate Attentive Hardworking Social Generous Good with kids A good cook Organized Intelligent A leader Financially stable My GFs are: Adorable Quirky Loving Humorous Smart Creative Good domestic skills Patient Passionate Link to post Share on other sites
2.50 a gallon Posted January 4, 2019 Share Posted January 4, 2019 The very first thought the night that I met her was "There is a face I could kiss good morning to for the rest of my life", followed by "LOOK at them Legs!" She is totally out of my league in the looks department. And as for personality she is the sweetest most giving person I have ever met. And most people who know her would agree. She used to loan $20 to fellow workers knowing she would never get it back, because as she put it they have kids and need the money more than she does. We have shared a life for over 23 years, and I still marvel that each night I am having supper with such a great lady who chose me to share her life with. I have no idea how I got so lucky 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Kitty Tantrum Posted January 4, 2019 Share Posted January 4, 2019 I could go on and on for pages, so I'll just list a few of the things I love/appreciate about my fiancé as they pop into my head: - hard worker, self-driven, disciplined - very intelligent - honest, consistent, congruent - good with people - capable and willing provider/breadwinner - thoughtful, courteous - solid sense of humor - romantic (maybe more than me) - really good cook - excellent driver - absolute gentleman - big and strong AND handsome - excellent grooming and hygiene practices - even-tempered and emotionally stable - kind, loving, affectionate - great with my kids - reasonably humble (but not too humble) - mature, responsible, dependable, reliable - possesses an abundance of common sense AND practical wisdom - mind-blowing in the sack - patient - good taste - solid set of primitive living/survival skills He also has a deep voice that can still make me go weak in the knees after 3 years. I am a lucky duck and I know it. Link to post Share on other sites
amaysngrace Posted January 4, 2019 Share Posted January 4, 2019 The best thing about my spouse is he’s my ex. Link to post Share on other sites
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