Gretchen12 Posted January 11, 2019 Share Posted January 11, 2019 OP I don't have these issues but I have dated men who did and it didn't work out for those same reasons. It's so sad and I have my own take on it. People call it insecurity, but I believe at the heart of it is anger. It's not because someone cheated on you before, it's probably how you grew up. This anger is deep and hidden, only comes out when you get close to someone. But it's not a red in the face anger at something in particular, it's a gnawing anger that's not directed at anything so you don't know what to do. When it comes out, it is disguised as jealousy or insecurity, because it's the only angle to voice your grievances. You're really asking someone who loves you to address wrongs you experienced as a child, to make it right. But she can't. Link to post Share on other sites
Rayce Posted January 11, 2019 Share Posted January 11, 2019 @brent878 Thank you. I don't believe I have carried on to that extreme. lol... gosh I sure hope not. I have been reading your posts. Your writing style is very much similar to my ex and hits accord with me. I appreciate your response. It gives me hope. Link to post Share on other sites
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