Jman220 Posted January 9, 2019 Share Posted January 9, 2019 Hey guys Last year I went through a pretty bad separation and this forum was helpful for me to note down feeling and events that took place. I guess I’m posting this to encourage some hope and to try and help anyone else who is in the position I was in that was so extremely difficult. After a couple of years of arguments and not seeing eye to eye my fiancée left, I asked her to and quickly begged forgiveness but she was adamant. She strung me along for about 7 months until I finally decided that was it and started going out and dating another girl. That was the turning point and very quickly she crumbled and we managed to reconcile- for which I am eternally grateful, we have a young daughter and I still loved her very much also too. If your wife or husband leaves follow the tough life advice, it is the only way things change in either outcome. There is always hope and if it’s not meant to be then it won’t be in the end, likewise it will work out if it’s supposed to. Our relationship is better than ever, we talk every night about small and big things. We socialise again, built bridges with both families and our sexlife is better than ever (we had a year with none prior to the split). The only one who can change anything is you- do not ever be strung along or taken for an idiot. YOU are worth someone who loves you unconditionally and prioritises your needs and wants. No matter how bad thugs are, it’s possible to turn them around if there’s is still love. I am walking proof Our wedding is booked for next year, new house purchased and a bright future ahead. To everyone who helped and advised me in my time of need thank you, if I can ever repay anyone in here by doing the same Itd be my pleasure. Happy 2019 ! Jman Link to post Share on other sites
Iamyoungjuan Posted January 9, 2019 Share Posted January 9, 2019 Good to hear really happy for you I really wish my wife would give me another chance but things not looking good at all Link to post Share on other sites
Author Jman220 Posted January 9, 2019 Author Share Posted January 9, 2019 Good to hear really happy for you I really wish my wife would give me another chance but things not looking good at all I just read your thread. I’m truly sorry to hear what you’re going through, I know how painful and lonely a time it can be. You have to listen to the tough love, do not beg under any circumstances, it will only ruin you healing and a potential reconciliation later on. Read the 180 points from divorce busters, they work. No matter how crap you feel, eat properly, go out and see you friends and family and be strong as possible. Stand upto her and get your self respect back to where it should be. You sound like a good man of good morals, stand by them, your luck will change and this is just a process. Dm me anytime if you need an ear to listen my man. I wish you the best of luck Link to post Share on other sites
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