bathtub-row Posted January 25, 2019 Share Posted January 25, 2019 Just call him and tell him. Don’t give him much time to talk about it. Or text him. Don’t give a timeline. The timeline is now. Honey, I’ll tell you something that I’ve observed over the years. A woman’s kindness and emotions are beautiful things but letting them rule your life when it’s to your own detriment is just plain dumb. And I see women do this all the time - I’ve done it myself - and I can tell you without a shred of doubt that letting your emotions guide you when everything else is wrong with the situation is a VERY BAD CHOICE THAT YOU WILL FULLY REGRET. Please do what it takes to walk away from this messy triangle you’re involved in and find a truly good man who wants to spend his life with you. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
BaileyB Posted January 25, 2019 Share Posted January 25, 2019 It's just hard walking away because I have feelings for him. I've been thinking about ending it but I always give myself a deadline. Like maybe wait few months before ending it. Who matters more - you or him? And, why waste more of your time in a dead end relationship. It’s not going to be any easier in a few months. If you know you need to end it, just end it! 1 Link to post Share on other sites
misspalmy Posted February 3, 2019 Share Posted February 3, 2019 I'm sorry for your loss. I;m 26 weeks pregnant. it doesnt do anything they still stay with there wife. I also have a 2 year old son to ex mm too. I told his wife 2nd time he cheated. she staying, its not walk in the park. very stressfull. Please dont become me and get pregnant again makes things worse for you. I have to give birth alone 1 Link to post Share on other sites
misspalmy Posted February 3, 2019 Share Posted February 3, 2019 Not being able to have children is one of the many many things you sacrifice by being with a married man. Honestly I don’t understand what you get out of this. Don’t you want someone who would be proud to show you off to his friends and family? Don’t you want to be more than a dirty secret? Don’t you want someone you can introduce to your friends and family? Someone you can share a home with, someone you can build a life with, someone you can have a family with? This man gives you nothing but occasional sex and attention. That’s it. You know that isn’t enough. Why do you settle for so little? Why do you love him more than yourself? You can still have kids to married man just not best way tho. his family know his wife knows. Link to post Share on other sites
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