ConfusedHippo Posted January 11, 2019 Share Posted January 11, 2019 How would you respond to a man who initiates a conversation with you over text, but takes hours or days to respond. He always eventually replies and is very engaging when he does. I usually don't mind because I know he is super busy, but taking days to respond seems deliberate. I am thinking of just not replying anymore, or giving a simple reply with no follow-up on his part. Why even bother starting a conversation with me? Men, please weigh in too Link to post Share on other sites
GinON Posted January 11, 2019 Share Posted January 11, 2019 Do you live close by and does he not ask you to go out? Link to post Share on other sites
Happy Lemming Posted January 11, 2019 Share Posted January 11, 2019 If I don't respond to a text, e-mail or phone call within 24 hours, I'm dead or in a coma. Even if I don't have an answer to your question, I'll acknowledge your communication. That is my policy for dating and was my policy when I worked. When my girlfriend e-mails, calls or texts; I try to respond within a few hours, at the most. Link to post Share on other sites
chillii Posted January 11, 2019 Share Posted January 11, 2019 Dunno if you read the forums but there is soooooo much bs goin round. Don't do this d that , don't be needy don't be clingy more do this do that and seem all aloof and blah bloody insanity blah. How does anyone know anything anymore. Or maybe he is just super busy. Link to post Share on other sites
Chris2016 Posted January 11, 2019 Share Posted January 11, 2019 (edited) He's just not that into you You can use your own experiences as examples. How did you interact/behave with a guy that you just weren't that into? Edited January 11, 2019 by Chris2016 Link to post Share on other sites
chillii Posted January 12, 2019 Share Posted January 12, 2019 (edited) Yeah , in all honesty l'd be going with that too sorry to say because if there's one time some of these guys should drop all the lists and internet bs , is if he is really really , keen. And he won't be risking any playing games for days on end if he truly is, well , not if he's got any brains anyway. Edited January 12, 2019 by chillii Link to post Share on other sites
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