coolj Posted September 16, 2005 Share Posted September 16, 2005 according to my husband what hurt him is that we fought everyday (over the smallest things) and when we fought "we" sometimes got violent, i was the cause to most of the fights because i didn't pick my fights, i fought them all. he said that all of these fights hurt him because he loved me so much that the fights were tearing him apart and he could not handle it no more. since the other day i moved my stuff out of the house and am getting a place of my own.when i went to get my stuff there was no fighting, he began by saying we were either going to have are marriage annulled or that we were getting a divorce, by the time i left however (some persuasion) he said that we would stay married and just not be together and we would have a very, very,very small chance of getting our marriage back. ********I want my husband back********* he says that he wants a divorce but is waiting 3 months to file. He says that there is a chance of getting back together but it will always be that way. I have considered getting pregnant in order to keep him... I would really do what ever it takes to get back together. I advice of getting back together. No matter what it takes. Link to post Share on other sites
cherrysoduh Posted September 16, 2005 Share Posted September 16, 2005 Hi, I would recommend not getting preg just to get your husband back. It probably not make things better and you might hurt him even more by tricking him into getting you preg. A child doesn't keep a marriage together, and a child will not help the issues that you and your husband have..just my opinion though Link to post Share on other sites
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