cgo311055 Posted January 13, 2019 Share Posted January 13, 2019 I don't understand why the dumper gets angry or emotional to see someone they dumped happy. Aren't you suppose to be happy for them or at least show indifference? Whats your story or opinion on this? Basically she broke up with me 7 month ago for few reasons: -College -immaturity on both our parts - short relationship Story: We started talking again 4 month after the breakup. A week later she showed up at our school and saw me just chilling and having a good time at my hangout spot. She started almost posting daily pictures and videos of hangouts with friends, selfies, and other guys at times. I was truly happy for her (she had told me she was feeling depressed) so me thinking that we were on friendly terms shot her a text telling her that i was happy she was feeling good again. Left me on read so i didn't do anything else to bother her again. (i understand enough to know spamming is a behavior people output when they are hurt) Shot me a text about a month later on Christmas and we started talking again. Always one of the first to view my stories and replied fast to my text (I like to see who views them). 2 weeks later came to the school again. We saw each other but i was working out so i didn't go over to talk to her. Whole process seemed to repeat itself once again. - block and unblock on social media -block on snap map and doesn't view my stories -ignores me and becomes cold to me I'm not here hoping to know if she wants me back but to understand peoples behavior and why they do this. What is your opinion or story on this subject? Link to post Share on other sites
basil67 Posted January 13, 2019 Share Posted January 13, 2019 When someone's behaviour is confusing, it's because they are confused. She's probably doing all this because she doesn't know what she wants in her life. My advice is to unfriend her and move on. You don't need this going on in the background of your life. Link to post Share on other sites
ExpatInItaly Posted January 13, 2019 Share Posted January 13, 2019 Maybe she has started seeing someone else and doesn't want you seeing when his photos or posts pop up on her social media, in case she needs you as a back-up. I would ignore it all and unfriend her for good. You will never move on if you don't. Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted January 13, 2019 Share Posted January 13, 2019 In your case, lack of maturity. That is not an insult but a fact of life. Nobody handles break ups well in high school. There is a old Janet Jackson song called I Can't Get Over You Getting Over Me. It's an ego thing. Your EX thought you'd pine longer. Just stay disconnected on social media. You can revisit being friends again after you graduate from college & you both move home. Link to post Share on other sites
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