Mr. Lucky Posted January 16, 2019 Share Posted January 16, 2019 I know that my particular style of wittiness is an acquired taste and it has been interpreted wrong in the past. Do you have a typically dry, British sense of humor? I can see how that might be lost on some people... Mr. Lucky Link to post Share on other sites
snowboy91 Posted January 16, 2019 Share Posted January 16, 2019 I know that my particular style of wittiness is an acquired taste and it has been interpreted wrong in the past. Interesting point you make about yourself... but does that not mean your ideal partner WILL understand your style of wittiness? Maybe it's worth considering it as an effective filter! That being said, the British sense of humour is often lost on Americans... as is the Australian sense of humour... I get it. I'd like to see an example of an actual piece of exemplary dating banter. I've always learned things scientifically, and before you bash me - I am trying to go about things according to the lady's way of doing things... but I'm not great yet. I still need very direct examples of great dating banter according to the rest of the world. As a scientist myself I've worked out that dating isn't scientific in the same sense. The kind of banter that works with one person won't work with someone else. And women are all as individual as men are, so if you ask what happens to the "rest of the world" you'll get a different answer from everyone. The only bit that seems to at least guarantee respect, if not the next date, is to just enjoy the company of the person and find out about them. In your original post you've put down a lot of things you think are attractive to women... if you put all that there I'd imagine you come across as a try hard (no offence). I'm pretty sure this is universal between both sexes - we are all looking for a partner that is fun and interesting to be around! Think about the kind of person who would be best suited to you, and only include things in your profile that might target those people. You don't want to attract just anyone - you want them to be someone who is your type of fun and interesting, because that will give you a better chance of turning it into a long term relationship. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Garcon1986 Posted January 16, 2019 Author Share Posted January 16, 2019 Well, I will start working on all my online dating profiles again. Thanks for everybody's advice. The sexiest woman I ever saw was actually not a naked woman... while I appreciate sex very much and have had plenty of sexy experiences, the woman I was most floored by was a woman who gave a new report in Hebrew and then subsequently proceeded to interview another journalist in Italian. I got ridiculously weak in the knees when I saw that. I admire the astronomer Natalie Batalha very much, because she got on a stage and talked about astrophysics like she invented it. I was floored by the excitement and the sense that she really achieved her calling. These are socioeconomically my equal, intellectually my equal, plenty pretty, seem like mild mannered easy to get along with - hence they are my dream date kind of people. Gonna use my time in rural Mississippi developing sexy banter that women crave. I can't sell my hotness just yet, but I will work on it with religious dedication. I hope to achieve 1/2 of the body of TheFoolofTheYear, and I will sell what I'm good at. Link to post Share on other sites
JuneL Posted January 16, 2019 Share Posted January 16, 2019 Snowboy91 (#53) is spot on on all counts! Link to post Share on other sites
brigit87 Posted January 16, 2019 Share Posted January 16, 2019 Does saying I’m a full time cardiologist carry more physical appeal to it? That’s specifically how I take care of kids for a living. Yep. State that you're a cardiologist. That's very appealing. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
outwithpeterpan Posted January 16, 2019 Share Posted January 16, 2019 Yep. State that you're a cardiologist. That's very appealing. -(Pictures that show you doing things) -Your name -Cardiologist -Musician -(Something funny) Sounds like a complete dating profile to me. Link to post Share on other sites
ifstone Posted January 25, 2019 Share Posted January 25, 2019 say that you take care of hearts for a living i think you're probably less witty than you think you are, in english at least. that's alright though. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
chillii Posted January 25, 2019 Share Posted January 25, 2019 Personally l really don't think your humor matters in nationality. My woman's from the other side of the planet to me but we just clicked, laugh and just got each other the second we laid eyes on each other. Telling my Slovenian friend her man's Spanish neither could even speak the other when they first met,same thing they just clicked She agreed it's not about where your from it's just about who you both are. Link to post Share on other sites
JuneL Posted January 25, 2019 Share Posted January 25, 2019 Personally l really don't think your humor matters in nationality. My woman's from the other side of the planet to me but we just clicked, laugh and just got each other the second we laid eyes on each other. Telling my Slovenian friend her man's Spanish neither could even speak the other when they first met,same thing they just clicked She agreed it's not about where your from it's just about who you both are. This. My previous bfs and myself were not native English speakers, and we communicated in English. My current bf is a native American English speaker, but we just clicked so well when we first met: We’re so getting each other’s witty comments and body language. We actually didn’t speak much, if you count the literal number of words out of out mouths. Of course, it helps that he’s highly intelligent (in my mind anyway ) and has an open mind. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
chillii Posted January 25, 2019 Share Posted January 25, 2019 Well, I will start working on all my online dating profiles again. Thanks for everybody's advice. The sexiest woman I ever saw was actually not a naked woman... while I appreciate sex very much and have had plenty of sexy experiences, the woman I was most floored by was a woman who gave a new report in Hebrew and then subsequently proceeded to interview another journalist in Italian. I got ridiculously weak in the knees when I saw that. I admire the astronomer Natalie Batalha very much, because she got on a stage and talked about astrophysics like she invented it. I was floored by the excitement and the sense that she really achieved her calling. These are socioeconomically my equal, intellectually my equal, plenty pretty, seem like mild mannered easy to get along with - hence they are my dream date kind of people. Gonna use my time in rural Mississippi developing sexy banter that women crave. I can't sell my hotness just yet, but I will work on it with religious dedication. I hope to achieve 1/2 of the body of TheFoolofTheYear, and I will sell what I'm good at. Ahhh yessa , l've been struck by the same now and then, nothing sexier than a really sexy brainy chick. Especially if she's wearing black glasses, l'm done for. Link to post Share on other sites
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