elaine567 Posted January 22, 2019 Share Posted January 22, 2019 Well the boat sailed on that, actually there is an interesting aside to that. I chose to study via correspondence, why because I wanted a challenge and it was a challenge. Do I regret doing so, to a large extent yes because the reason mentioned above. BUT I did attend some lectures for some subjects and what I mostly found was I didn't fit in with those people either, I made too study friends but I couldn't even fit in with those guys socially. Mostly because it was party/drinking most of the time and someone who doesn't do that isn't "fun". I did once got propositioned by an extremely attractive marketing student but I made a complete mess of that social interaction and that was that. IME just like everywhere else in life there are cliques for all types so there are the partying guys and girls, but there are others too who sort themselves out into groups depending on what they like to do. The groups can intermingle too. As a correspondence student you would never have fitted in like a person who was full time from day one. Link to post Share on other sites
brigit87 Posted January 22, 2019 Share Posted January 22, 2019 what I mostly found was I didn't fit in with those people either, I made too study friends but I couldn't even fit in with those guys socially. Perhaps there isn't a group, label or box that you will ever fit in. Some people don't fit but pretend to fit when needed to survive. If you're constantly questioning why the conversations around you don't interest you or that there is a perpetual sense of discomfort in your skin when your around others then stop looking for the right fit. You're making money and surviving. That's a lot. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Recommended Posts