Author flume Posted February 21, 2019 Author Share Posted February 21, 2019 Caved in and made a fool of myself.. Called back the usual time she would've returned from work.. She disconnected.. I sent a message asking if she was OK and that I couldn't get to calling her due to work schedule.. Feel idiotic now.. Don't call or take the call if you called before.. Blocked now for mental peace.. So I got a call last weekend.. Me cheerful hey how are you.. Stern and hostile I called you by mistake was trying to remove your number on messenger.. And I am dating someone else.. Me traveling for business blurted I wish you guys well.. Also can we talk.. She: no.. I don't want to.. I am dating someone else.. Me ok.. Repeating the same thing on Wishing well.. Blah blah Texted I regret my behavior during some parts of the relationship esp. And the end and then bye.. And now I am boiling with anger.. If you bloody called me by mistake then ignore my action and move on.. Who does this.. How the tables have turned.. Had blocked on messenger before now blocking everywhere.. Link to post Share on other sites
PegNosePete Posted February 21, 2019 Share Posted February 21, 2019 It was no accident. She called to let you know about her new BF and to check that you're still her little puppy dog, eating up whatever scraps of attention she throws you. Which you confirmed that you are. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author flume Posted March 1, 2019 Author Share Posted March 1, 2019 (edited) Caved in and made a fool of myself.. Called back the usual time she would've returned from work.. She disconnected.. I sent a message asking if she was OK and that I couldn't get to calling her due to work schedule.. Feel idiotic now.. Don't call or take the call if you called before.. Blocked now for mental peace.. The late night call I was returning, was the one, she said this was the call made by mistake while trying to delete me. I was already deleted a couple of days before that. When I was removing her number, I realized I couldn't see the thumbnail pic. Trying NOT to read too much in it So I got a call last weekend.. Me cheerful hey how are you.. Stern and hostile I called you by mistake was trying to remove your number on messenger.. And I am dating someone else.. Me traveling for business blurted I wish you guys well.. Also can we talk.. She: no.. I don't want to.. I am dating someone else.. Me ok.. Repeating the same thing on Wishing well.. Blah blah Texted I regret my behavior during some parts of the relationship esp. And the end and then bye.. And now I am boiling with anger.. If you bloody called me by mistake then ignore my action and move on.. Who does this.. How the tables have turned.. Had blocked on messenger before now blocking everywhere.. I don't think I will even know: Coming Clean OR Trying to get a rise out of me OR may be found my text patronizing to retaliate (was with good intentions though). My brain rehashes and goes over it multiple time. Really messed me up. But now since its been a couple of days I am better May be I will never know why and what of the call. Really puerile behavior though. Be indifferent and move on, what is the point of rubbing it in someone's face. I have said my piece in that last text after that call. I can now say, I Said my piece nothing else to do but move on. I cheated on someone long ago and got cheated on too. Had a messed up couple of years. She knew the story, how sometimes this made me insecure and knew this would really push my buttons. I rehash but then realize how futile it is to guess someone's intentions or the truth. In all probability it is the truth and just wanted to spite me. She once said in semi-jest a couple of months ago, I want to date other people which really pissed me off and I showed it. But we were trying to be casual then. It was no accident. She called to let you know about her new BF and to check that you're still her little puppy dog, eating up whatever scraps of attention she throws you. Which you confirmed that you are. Thanks for the tough love. Although, being human and caving is just a part of life. This helped me steel the NC resolve. Basis my past, I am really happy the way I am handling this one though. May not be perfect but I think I am getting there - Moving On. Edited March 1, 2019 by flume Grammar: Trying to improve it Link to post Share on other sites
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