b_boo22 Posted September 18, 2005 Share Posted September 18, 2005 I have a question. I recently broke up with a bf of 2 and 1/2 year, I now find myself having severe stomach aches and diarrhea. I am nauseated all the time and I don't know how to make these three things go away (stomach-ache, diarrhea, and nauseated). Has anyone else had these problems after a break up and if you did what did you do to make it go away? I know people will say its all from sadness, and stress and that it will go away soon enough, but I need help now on how to make it go away faster. I have a job and school to attend and it is making me feel horrible. Please any help at all. Link to post Share on other sites
Outcast Posted September 18, 2005 Share Posted September 18, 2005 Really get yourself to a physician right away. You could have any number of things, some of which could be serious. You absolutely must not get diagnoses of conditons like this over the Internet. There is no way a 2 1/2 year old breakup could cause this. Call your doctor first thing Monday. Link to post Share on other sites
Author b_boo22 Posted September 18, 2005 Author Share Posted September 18, 2005 I was with him 2 and 1/2 year and we just broke up. so i know its from the break up and i know it just from being up set. i need to know how to make me stop thinking and stressing about it. that is why my stomach is so upset. but i guess i will go to the doctor because maybe they can give me so stress meds. so i can relax and then i bet my stomach would stop. Link to post Share on other sites
upsetnhurt Posted September 18, 2005 Share Posted September 18, 2005 Sit back and relax a bit. Realize that it takes two people to want to work together to make a relationship. At this point there is nothing that you can do to make him want that nor was there ever anything you could do. It is his problems, not yours and you need to realize it. Know that you did everything you could and maybe with time he might realize. Then you might have choices to make. In the meantime, show yourself and everyone else that you can stand on your own two feet and be happy in life on your own. You did it before you meant him, no? Make yourself happy first before you can make anyone happy also. Link to post Share on other sites
bellaD Posted September 18, 2005 Share Posted September 18, 2005 i got them too when my bf needed space. its not good- its your nerves acting up. you miss him and your scaredof having him outta your life. hang in there. you'll live =) Link to post Share on other sites
Outcast Posted September 18, 2005 Share Posted September 18, 2005 You still need to see a doctor. Link to post Share on other sites
Shandy Posted September 18, 2005 Share Posted September 18, 2005 but I wouldn't say it was severe. It's not just from breakups either, sometimes I have problems like that when I'm really stressed out too. You might want to see a doctor if it's so severe that it's affecting your life. Link to post Share on other sites
nosybear819 Posted September 18, 2005 Share Posted September 18, 2005 yeah same thing happened when my ex and I were breaking up at first I thought I had IBS. I went to my doctor to find out what was wrong with me she said that it was from stress. Apparently that's how the body reacts sometimes when under large amounts of stress. But everyone's different don't take a diagnosis for LS go ask your doc what's up Link to post Share on other sites
laRubiaBonita Posted September 18, 2005 Share Posted September 18, 2005 Irritable Bowel Syndrome...aka, IBS. It is when folks, like yourself seem to "collect" stress in their guts. Any type of exercise will help, or yoga....anything that helps you to relieve stress, besides drinking, drugs, and nicotine. eat more fiber rich foods, i.e... bananas, apples....fruits and veggies. journal, paint, express these emotions that you are internalizing and making yourself sick with. It will get better . Link to post Share on other sites
Outcast Posted September 18, 2005 Share Posted September 18, 2005 It is also possible that you've picked up food poisoning or some gastrointestinal illness while mourning your relationship which is why the best idea is to go to a doctor. Link to post Share on other sites
littlekitty Posted September 20, 2005 Share Posted September 20, 2005 It is also possible that you've picked up food poisoning or some gastrointestinal illness while mourning your relationship which is why the best idea is to go to a doctor. Keep going Outcast! Maybe someone will eventually realise the best option is....... GO TO A DOCTOR!!! Link to post Share on other sites
freebird Posted October 14, 2005 Share Posted October 14, 2005 Seriously - chew on a piece of FRESH ginger root. If you can't handle that, cut a piece of ginger or pieces of ginger and score the pieces with a knife. Also, sort of crush the ginger pieces so the essential oils leak out- then immediately put them in a cup of hot or very warm water. If that fails - take some Ginger pills - any health food store with have them. Ginger takes away nausea and that over all "sic" feeling within 10-15 minutes. Always works for me! Good luck! Link to post Share on other sites
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