Author Emilyperkins Posted March 2, 2019 Author Share Posted March 2, 2019 @baileyb sorry I worded it wrong. He said he doesn’t open anything from her at all. So he was pissed that it was opened period Link to post Share on other sites
darkmoon Posted March 2, 2019 Share Posted March 2, 2019 what does this guy do that proves he loves you? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Emilyperkins Posted March 2, 2019 Author Share Posted March 2, 2019 @Darkmoon he left his ex of 6 years for me Link to post Share on other sites
basil67 Posted March 3, 2019 Share Posted March 3, 2019 @Darkmoon he left his ex of 6 years for me This doesn't mean that he loves you. It could just as easily be him 'monkey branching' Link to post Share on other sites
BaileyB Posted March 3, 2019 Share Posted March 3, 2019 @Darkmoon he left his ex of 6 years for me And as you fear, they could just be taking a break. Or, she left him and he still has feelings for her... you would be surprised. Link to post Share on other sites
Redhead14 Posted March 3, 2019 Share Posted March 3, 2019 @Darkmoon he left his ex of 6 years for me He didn't leave her for you. You're "romanticizing" this scenario. They were having problems before you showed up. They split up again and you just happened to be in the picture at the time. You were convenient, willing and a good distraction for him. Link to post Share on other sites
darkmoon Posted March 3, 2019 Share Posted March 3, 2019 does he say "I love you"? is he a rock, providing moral support? does he help with things? does he make you laugh? do you share many similar opinions? just a few will do... Link to post Share on other sites
BaileyB Posted March 3, 2019 Share Posted March 3, 2019 does he say "I love you"? is he a rock, providing moral support? does he help with things? does he make you laugh? do you share many similar opinions? just a few will do... Darkmoon, he is convicted sex offender who is currently released from prison but under house arrest, living with an ankle bracelet and living in his mother’s home. I say this only because, it doesn’t matter if he provides moral support or make her laugh. He is a criminal who continues to prey on women much younger than his age... we would be unwise to advise this girl to stay in this relationship. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Redhead14 Posted March 3, 2019 Share Posted March 3, 2019 Darkmoon, he is convicted sex offender who is currently released from prison but under house arrest, living with an ankle bracelet and living in his mother’s home. He is under house arrest for 5, count 'em, 5 years. The only way he can have sex/a "girlfriend" is if he finds one who will "bring it to him". And, the only kind of woman who would do that is a very young girl who doesn't have a clue about what relationship is and should look like and how she should be treated by a man/boyfriend and what she should expect for herself out of a relationship. Most mature women wouldn't go near a 32 year old man who still lives with his mother (without being confined to house arrest) even. That by itself is kinda lame. Was he living with her before all this? If so, Norman Bates, comes to mind. LOL In other words, no intelligent, secure, independent woman who wants and expects to be treated with respect and valued for what she has to offer for a relationship would touch him with a 10 foot pole or else she has some serious issues herself. Link to post Share on other sites
elaine567 Posted March 3, 2019 Share Posted March 3, 2019 He changed his Facebook picture today. It’s from his video shoot. It’s me him and my friend. We are all posing hanging on to him only I’m not facing the camera. You can’t see MY face. He and I my friend are looking directly into the camera No man who truly loved you, would choose a pic of himself posing with your friend as his FB pic. He wouldn't want to hurt you. If this was purely a marketing thing he would have ran it by you first. I guess your hot friend is next on his list, if she hasn't already replaced you... You are wasting your time here. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Emilyperkins Posted March 3, 2019 Author Share Posted March 3, 2019 No man who truly loved you, would choose a pic of himself posing with your friend as his FB pic. He wouldn't want to hurt you. If this was purely a marketing thing he would have ran it by you first. . It’s not him and her. It’s the 3 of us Link to post Share on other sites
Author Emilyperkins Posted March 3, 2019 Author Share Posted March 3, 2019 He didn't leave her for you. He did leave her for me. They aren’t speaking. She went ballistic when she found out about me. This is the girl who he won’t speak to because she reported him. He can’t even bring himself to open her messages. He hates her that much. A woman he was with for years. Because of how she treated me Link to post Share on other sites
elaine567 Posted March 3, 2019 Share Posted March 3, 2019 It’s not him and her. It’s the 3 of us Yes, but no-one could see your face. Why choose that still? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Emilyperkins Posted March 3, 2019 Author Share Posted March 3, 2019 Why choose that still? My face is turned away in both stills Link to post Share on other sites
Author Emilyperkins Posted March 3, 2019 Author Share Posted March 3, 2019 Darkmoon, he is convicted sex offender who is currently released from prison but under house arrest, living with an ankle bracelet and living in his mother’s home. [/quote That’s funny because his mother actually liked the pic on Facebook me him and my friend. Wouldn’t that be her showing her support? I mean we still aren’t friends on there but still Link to post Share on other sites
BaileyB Posted March 3, 2019 Share Posted March 3, 2019 Social media is not a barometer for anything - certainly not whether he does/does not love you or whether his family does/does not accept your “relationship.” Link to post Share on other sites
Author Emilyperkins Posted March 3, 2019 Author Share Posted March 3, 2019 Social media is not a barometer for anything - It was stated here that his family has not connected with me on social media because they “know I won’t be around long” I was stating that his mother liked the pic from the video that he posted. Even though she never added me on anything Link to post Share on other sites
BaileyB Posted March 3, 2019 Share Posted March 3, 2019 (edited) I know what you stated. The fact that she “liked” the photo does not mean that she thinks you will be sticking around... for whatever reason, she “liked” the photo. Her son was also in the photo... perhaps, that is why she “liked” it. As you said, your face wasn’t even visible. The fact that she “liked” a photo on social media means nothing, except you are really grasping at straws if this is what you think indicates any kind of acceptance. Besides, acceptance from his family does not give your relationship any more credibility or legitimacy. Edited March 3, 2019 by BaileyB 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Redhead14 Posted March 3, 2019 Share Posted March 3, 2019 Emily, why are you so desperate for validation and support from his mother? If a woman is receiving what she needs mentally and emotionally from her boyfriend, she is not really concerned about whether his mother is liking photos or not. Seriously. That's very sad. It appears that you don't expect much for yourself from others in order to feel important or accepted, validated. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Emilyperkins Posted March 3, 2019 Author Share Posted March 3, 2019 Emily, why are you so desperate for validation and support from his mother? . One of you mentioned that they havent befriended me or added me because they don’t plan on me sticking around. So Link to post Share on other sites
elaine567 Posted March 4, 2019 Share Posted March 4, 2019 His mother liked the pic of her son, its not rocket science. Maybe she never noticed you were on it too... all she saw was your friend and her son... Link to post Share on other sites
Redhead14 Posted March 4, 2019 Share Posted March 4, 2019 One of you mentioned that they havent befriended me or added me because they don’t plan on me sticking around. So Geez, Emily. You need to get a grip here. Facebook/Instagram likes are not some kind of signs from people that validate things and/or people. She just liked a photo her son put up PERIOD. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Emilyperkins Posted March 4, 2019 Author Share Posted March 4, 2019 they could just be taking a break. Or, she left him and he still has feelings for her... . How could a man who doesn’t even want to open a text from someone still have feelings for them. Link to post Share on other sites
BaileyB Posted March 4, 2019 Share Posted March 4, 2019 Emily. They had a relationship and she broke up with him. No doubt, that was a blow to his ego (his ego seems pretty substancial), and he is angry. It doesn’t mean that he doesn’t have unresolved issues or feelings for this woman. The good news for you, it does sound like she is done with him. What he is thinking, is an entirely different matter... Link to post Share on other sites
Author Emilyperkins Posted March 4, 2019 Author Share Posted March 4, 2019 They had a relationship and she broke up with him. .... She didn’t. She found out about he and I. Because she said he lied to her. He embarrassed her when she tried to check him about me on his live in front of everyone. She went ballistic. How is that her dumping him? And this was in December. It’s March. Wouldn’t he be over his “anger” by now. He could’ve still been with her if he wanted. Link to post Share on other sites
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