kivilcimaydin Posted February 6, 2019 Share Posted February 6, 2019 Someone please help me. Me and ex started dating back in December 2016 and we broke up after 1 1/2 months due my family not accepting him. Since then he keeps messaging me every few months saying he still loves me and wants me and all i can say is that he needs to move on and I don't love him. Just the other day he added me on Snapchat and messaged me and I didn't think too much of it. I just decided it's best we meet and talk, because I need him to understand I don't love him anymore. He threatened me and said if I leave him again he will kidnap me and I'm really scared, but I just keep thinking if he is just trying to scare me or is actually serious. How do i tell him NO for once and all. How do i keep him away from me? Someone please help me, i can't take this anymore:(:(:( Link to post Share on other sites
Highndry Posted February 7, 2019 Share Posted February 7, 2019 Uhh, call the cops and file a restraining order. Link to post Share on other sites
Cersei Posted February 7, 2019 Share Posted February 7, 2019 Did I read that correctly....You only dated 1 1/2 months?? Block him on everything And if continues some other way I agree about a restraining order. Link to post Share on other sites
bathtub-row Posted February 7, 2019 Share Posted February 7, 2019 Don’t discount anything he says or does. Obviously there’s a reason why your family didn’t like him and good for you for ending it. But he’s potentially dangerous and don’t underestimate him. Go to the cops and tell them he threatened you. They should be able to guide you from there. And absolutely cut off every form of communication he can have with you, or anything where he can see your activity - like Facebook. Block, block, block. Never take it lightly when someone threatens you to that degree. Link to post Share on other sites
bathtub-row Posted February 7, 2019 Share Posted February 7, 2019 Btw, if you have family members who know some shady people, tell them what this guy said and they’ll have someone go rough up the guy and scare the crap out of him. And it can never come back on you. When I had a guy stalking me once, someone made that suggestion and if the stalker guy hadn’t stopped, I would’ve taken them up on it. Also, tell your family what has happened so that they can watch their own backs, and yours. Link to post Share on other sites
Rayce Posted February 7, 2019 Share Posted February 7, 2019 wow this guy has been stalking you for a very long time. There is nothing more scary than having someone stalk you... I speak from personal experience of having to deal with a stalker. Do not take stalking lightly. Since he actually threatened you at least make a police report so you something on file. Also follow up and get a restraining order. Do you have a home security system? If not get one. Do you know any self defense moves? If not learn some. Not sure about your rights there but are you armed in any way? Taser? Pepper Spray? Handgun? Get some lessons. Link to post Share on other sites
healing light Posted February 7, 2019 Share Posted February 7, 2019 Do not meet up with this guy!! Not even to tell him to F off. Block him and delete him on everything. Put all your privacy settings up. Don't post your location to any event on social media--and if you must, make sure you post the photos after you've left the area. Turn off your location settings on your phone and don't click on any links that he's sent you. What country are you in? Get a restraining order, tell him to stop contacting you, that other people know of his harassment, and if he persists you will be taking legal action, etc. Link to post Share on other sites
healing light Posted February 7, 2019 Share Posted February 7, 2019 Also, I agree with the poster who was stalked above. Consider doing self defense courses, installing a camera near the front of your residence, and/or getting a guard dog, etc. if you have the means to. Link to post Share on other sites
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