Redhead14 Posted February 7, 2019 Share Posted February 7, 2019 Hello, Below is my story. My “girlfriend” and I met on a mobile game last year. We exchanged numbers and eventually started “dating” I live in NYC and she lived in Virginia. It was all lovey-dovey and we were saying how we will be together forever, blahblah. Recently, she came to live with me in NYC. Things are totally differentnow that we are physically together and I don’t want part of it no more. I am leaving for a business trip and I asked her to go elsewhere until I come back. I keep telling her to go back to her parents place however she refuses and says she will go to her friends apartment and pay rent with the money she has. She does not work.. and no income. She has money to maybe last her 6 months. I want to take the time when I’m away to really think of everything. If I return to NY and don’t want to get back with her, can I just not contact her? Change my number, and ignore her? Are there any legal issues? Can she sue me for not coming back to her? Can I just completely take her out of my life?? Please help! It's not illegal, but it's a d'bag move. Talk to her, tell her the relationship isn't working for you anymore and that you are breaking up with her. Link to post Share on other sites
ExpatInItaly Posted February 8, 2019 Share Posted February 8, 2019 So what should my process be regarding this to avoid any legal issues You look up the number of a lawyer in your area, and get a consultation. Without knowing all the details of your situation or the laws in your specific area, we cannot give you foolproof legal advice. If you're concerned, speak to a professional who is fully-informed and qualified to give you the guidance you're seeking. Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted February 8, 2019 Share Posted February 8, 2019 Sit her down & break up with her. Tell her she has to get out. When she cries that she can't afford it, offer to foot the bill. I paid $500 to get an EX out of my house. It was money well spent. She said she will go to a nearby friend's house. . . so let her. Link to post Share on other sites
loversquarrel Posted February 9, 2019 Share Posted February 9, 2019 Take yourself to the courthouse, scratch your face all up, then tell them you fear for your safety as she attacked you. You'll get a restraining order issued against her and she'll have to leave. Problem solved. Link to post Share on other sites
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