Author SBM1111 Posted February 12, 2019 Author Share Posted February 12, 2019 This is to romantic, keep us posted on updates. ☺️ romantic or madness lol I will post if I go through with it Link to post Share on other sites
Author SBM1111 Posted February 12, 2019 Author Share Posted February 12, 2019 Women coworkers ask me to lunch all the time ... Now ... I'm friends with most of these women ... most of whom are married ... But there are single coworkers who will ask me to lunch ... And I love it! ...You can ask someone to lunch to talk to them about work ... and inevitably, you will learn more about them and get to know them better as people. So depends on how you've interested with this person. I'm assuming you want to ask out a coworker ... Just throw in a line ... Hey, really enjoy your comments at our meetings ... I'd like to have lunch with you .... I would propose the place, somewhere safe and "worky." The funny thing is that I would have lunch with a coworker who I was just friends/coworker with ... and somewhere along the line ... things became more flirty ... It's a great strategy in life to ask to lunch anyone you really want to spend time with. If you're scared, keep the initial request work related ... if you have non-work conversation with person and have a bit more confidence, just say you would love to meet them for lunch this is another thing.. If I do muster the courage then should I ask him to coffee on the work premises ie during work or suggest meeting after work? We work in a hospital in a small town most the time we cannot leave the hospital during the day in case of an emergency. So it has to be on site or off it Link to post Share on other sites
MeadowFlower Posted February 12, 2019 Share Posted February 12, 2019 romantic or madness lol I will post if I go through with it Oops, that was meant to be so* romantic not to romantic. But yes post any updates ? Link to post Share on other sites
Author SBM1111 Posted February 13, 2019 Author Share Posted February 13, 2019 Any more advice before I potentially make a fool of myself in front of the whole workplace ?? Link to post Share on other sites
smackie9 Posted February 14, 2019 Share Posted February 14, 2019 Sorry to say this but it is never a good idea to date coworkers....ever. Link to post Share on other sites
T-Rexus Posted February 14, 2019 Share Posted February 14, 2019 Any more advice before I potentially make a fool of myself in front of the whole workplace ?? Have you joked or flirted around with him? Does he seem to seek you out for conversation? Has he given you any sign that he is interested in being more than just coworkers. Link to post Share on other sites
5x5 Posted February 14, 2019 Share Posted February 14, 2019 Sorry to say this but it is never a good idea to date coworkers....ever. My wife (who asked me out on a date at work) and I are so glad, we didn't buy such advice close to 23 years ago. As we happily get closer to sharing, our 20th wedding anniversary. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
2.50 a gallon Posted February 16, 2019 Share Posted February 16, 2019 I met my ex-W the first time at the pool. She was totally fold out material, she in her swim suit was more than an eyeful. After talking for awhile, I mentioned I needed to go back to my apartment to refresh my drink. Somebody had given me a sign which read, "Make me an Offer I can't refuse" She read me the sign and said how about these, and took her top off. Link to post Share on other sites
chillii Posted February 16, 2019 Share Posted February 16, 2019 Well , l'm fairly old school but never the less nah l wouldn't be put off or hold it against her at all, l'd feel quite flattered actually. But the main thing would be if l was interested l probably would've asked her by then. Link to post Share on other sites
MeadowFlower Posted February 21, 2019 Share Posted February 21, 2019 Any updates SBM1111? Link to post Share on other sites
DrReplyInRhymes Posted February 22, 2019 Share Posted February 22, 2019 I would be elated, it would be a nice change of pace, Especially if I was already into her, it'd make my heart race. Link to post Share on other sites
CantGetEnuff Posted February 22, 2019 Share Posted February 22, 2019 I met my ex-W the first time at the pool. She was totally fold out material, she in her swim suit was more than an eyeful. After talking for awhile, I mentioned I needed to go back to my apartment to refresh my drink. Somebody had given me a sign which read, "Make me an Offer I can't refuse" She read me the sign and said how about these, and took her top off. Wait...did this really happen? Because that is a great story. Link to post Share on other sites
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