Brokenheartedman12 Posted February 11, 2019 Share Posted February 11, 2019 A few nights ago my ex was at party I was at with her bf. I wasn’t jealous or even payed any attention to it she came up and said hello. In fact we’ve been pretty friendly the past couple months.i went to grab a drink and her friend was like we don’t talk to you. Never did I attempt tot even care to talk to this girl but I was like umm okay? Later that night she told my friend my ex told her friends not to talk to me or another guy she was talking to in past. Why is that? Why does she care who they talk to. Is it like a territory thing we were hers and her friends can’t? Her friend has a bf so idk why that even matters? I found it really odd. Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted February 11, 2019 Share Posted February 11, 2019 yea that is a little bizarre but the less time you spend thinking about it, the better Link to post Share on other sites
Author Brokenheartedman12 Posted February 11, 2019 Author Share Posted February 11, 2019 yea that is a little bizarre but the less time you spend thinking about it, the better Ik I just want to know what people think the reasoning behind it is Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted February 11, 2019 Share Posted February 11, 2019 It's childish. Part if it is she wants to know her friends are loyal to her & that they aren't befriending you. She's not a completely rude person. She greeted you at the party. Basically she's moved on. You need to stop over thinking things Link to post Share on other sites
Author Brokenheartedman12 Posted February 11, 2019 Author Share Posted February 11, 2019 It's childish. Part if it is she wants to know her friends are loyal to her & that they aren't befriending you. She's not a completely rude person. She greeted you at the party. Basically she's moved on. You need to stop over thinking things So it has nothing to do with jealousy or anything, we are friendly towards each other and her friend has a bf but either way it never crossed my mind to associate myself with anyone she’s involved with she came up to me and aid we don’t talk to you. Ik her having a bf is moving on but idk Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted February 11, 2019 Share Posted February 11, 2019 No it's not her being jealous of you in a romantic or I want you back sense but it may be a bit of jealousy in that she wants to "win" her friend's loyalty. I suspect her behavior would have been the same even if her new BF wasn't at the party. Link to post Share on other sites
skanzer Posted February 11, 2019 Share Posted February 11, 2019 Why did you go to a party your ex invited you to? Aside from my question, it seems like high school maturity level, the way things happened. Link to post Share on other sites
ExpatInItaly Posted February 11, 2019 Share Posted February 11, 2019 I don't think it has anything to do with romantic jealousy, OP. She just seems to want her friend to childishly demonstrate their loyalty to her. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Brokenheartedman12 Posted February 15, 2019 Author Share Posted February 15, 2019 I literally feel sick, this is a girl that we talked about growing old together. Everytime I feel I’m ready to move on I feel sick and think about her. It kills me I had insecurities and I wish there was someone before her, so I didn’t have it all with her. I really wish I could go back . I can’t hate the guy he seems to really care for her. But kills me knowing she was actually a good girl and I blew it. She wanted to be with me forever but I pushed her away. Link to post Share on other sites
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