I told the wife to hurt the MM

[Theside]

After a year or so of the MM trying to dictate how I dress or accusing me of cheating on him, I'd had enough. So, to make his life miserable I told his wife everything. I had kept all the screen shots, everything. I think the most satisfying aspect was letting her see he had sex with me in her bed. And...his family finding out as it seemed to really rip off his mask.

 

I found out she had lived for over 20 years with this reject and she seemed to act like a whipped dog.

 

Once I did this for the third time, he's gone silent. In a way I'd like to know the damage to him. But I don't have any mutual friends. I'm not his first known affair.

 

I want to say that just because the mistress tells a wife doesn't mean she wants the man. I'd laugh pretty hard if he got kicked out or divorced over me. And in no way would I want him because I'd in no way want his wife's life.

 

I think he's a narcissist. And I am borderline. I find myself trying to Hoover him back in order to create more chaos for him. Not her, him. I truly hate him but I love the power ai had to disrupt his life. He came onto me. He sought me out. He chose me and then was abusive. I feel like he should choose his mistresses more wisely if a MM thinks he can push a mistress around as we have no ties to him.

 

Is this normal at all for a mistress? I thought they want to end marriages to hook up with the loser. And the wife, she seems batty and I don't honestly care. I mean if you let a man wipe his feet on you over and over and never would leave, don't expect my respect.

Edited February 12, 2019 by Theside

[bmh]

You posted in Oct about you (MM) and your OW. Now you’re posting as an OW. I’m confused.

[whichwayisup]

I certainly hope you apologized to her for your part in hurting her.

 

Now, let it go and move on. Don't mess in his life anymore. And don't contact his wife anymore either. She's the innocent one in all this mess that you helped him create, so what you did to hurt him it seems you are thrilled that you blew her world up and now she's dealing with a lot of heartache and pain.