mirrormypics Posted February 14, 2019 Posted February 14, 2019 Maybe IM overreacting but...i’ve started a FWB relationship with a friend i’ve known for a couple months. He tells me i’m beautiful, hot, and loves to see my body, but lately when I contact him on snapchat he replies with blank photos or takes a whole 15 hours to open my snap and respond. He told me he loved me two nights ago and I said it back for the first time, but last night he never opened my snap and today in person he looked me in the eyes and didn’t say a word to me. Men, what is going on??? The last time we hooked up was 3 days ago so surely he’s not losing interest, right?
stillafool Posted February 14, 2019 Posted February 14, 2019 Well if he told you he is in love with you does that now mean you two are in a relationship and no longer FWBs?
Author mirrormypics Posted February 15, 2019 Author Posted February 15, 2019 based on how he’s acting, I don’t think so. he’s still just really distant and his flirting efforts shouldn’t even be called flirting (just filters on snapchat)
TheWaltz Posted February 15, 2019 Posted February 15, 2019 If he loved you, you'd know about it. That is, if it was any kind of love worth receiving.
TheWaltz Posted February 15, 2019 Posted February 15, 2019 I meant to add, you sound quite emotionally invested to tally up how long he takes to open your snapchats and thinking about his actions. I'd back off sharp, if I were you. 1
elaine567 Posted February 15, 2019 Posted February 15, 2019 Sounds like he is play acting out some sort of "gf experience" when he is having sex with you. You are far too invested in him for a FWB arrangement. Men tend to put girls into boxes and a FWB, is usually not gf material in his eyes. If you agreed to be his FWB in order to persuade him to date you then that was probably a stupid idea. So whilst he pretends you are his gf whilst having sex with you, I guess he doesn't really see you in that way.
emeraldgreen Posted February 15, 2019 Posted February 15, 2019 Forget snapchat as a gauge of a relationship. It's dumb, and therefore any conclusions you come to based on it are as well. Now, actions count. A guy who loves you won't confuse you, but base it on actions in the real world. Social media is cancer for your emotions.
Author mirrormypics Posted February 15, 2019 Author Posted February 15, 2019 okay got it...no more reading too much into social media behavior, back off, what else?
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