Pink86 Posted February 16, 2019 Posted February 16, 2019 If a man I just met randomly mentions my sex appeal in a conversation when I wasn’t really paying attention, does that mean he thinks I’m sexy or is he just paying me a compliment or is he testing the water with me trying to see if I would react to his comment which I didn’t because it caught me off guard and I didn’t know what to say because I am kinda shy. What would his intentions be? He is a lot older than me so I was confused. We are just acquaintances as if now so I’ve talked to him a few times but it seems like recently he is flirting more. Not sure if he is playing around or what. I don’t feel comfortable asking him so I’m asking you all.
Fair Posted February 16, 2019 Posted February 16, 2019 What did he say, exactly? I assume if he's flirting he finds you attractive.
Author Pink86 Posted February 16, 2019 Author Posted February 16, 2019 I was looking something up on my phone and he said “well that will be a bad thing for your sex appeal” as I was talking about my skin breaking out a little bit. I didn’t mention feeling unattractive so he took it upon himself to bring up sex appeal.
Mrs._December Posted February 16, 2019 Posted February 16, 2019 He is a lot older than me so I was confused. We are just acquaintances as if now so I’ve talked to him a few times but it seems like recently he is flirting more. Not sure if he is playing around or what. I don’t feel comfortable asking him so I’m asking you all. Yet another 'much older' guy hitting on a young woman. How unusual. I'll never forget - when I was 25 years old, some 55-60 year old pervert came up to me and made some comment about, "if I were only 20 years younger..." and in disgust I blurted back, "if you were 20 years younger, what? You'd be my grandfather????" Repulsive. So unappealing when these perverts think they actually have a chance. If you're smart OP, you'll avoid this guy like the plague. There's just something so nasty about old men looking for vulnerable women too naive to KNOW any better. 1
Fair Posted February 16, 2019 Posted February 16, 2019 I was looking something up on my phone and he said “well that will be a bad thing for your sex appeal” as I was talking about my skin breaking out a little bit. I didn’t mention feeling unattractive so he took it upon himself to bring up sex appeal. His comment was just... stupid. 1
BaileyB Posted February 16, 2019 Posted February 16, 2019 Well, clearly he has sex on the brain... This is not exactly a positive compliment, however. If anything, it is more of a backhanded compliment. Whatever he meant, it would put him firmly in the “creepy old man” category for me and make me put some distance between us... but then again, I have no interest in either flirting or dating a much older man. 1
stillafool Posted February 16, 2019 Posted February 16, 2019 I think his comment was just stupid, "well that would be a bad thing for your sex appeal" meaning a break out on your face could ruin your looks.
ExpatInItaly Posted February 16, 2019 Posted February 16, 2019 This is not exactly a positive compliment, however. If anything, it is more of a backhanded compliment. This. I would be insulted, not flattered.
Author Pink86 Posted February 16, 2019 Author Posted February 16, 2019 That’s what I was wondering. Is it an insult or was he hitting on me?
Author Pink86 Posted February 17, 2019 Author Posted February 17, 2019 I don’t know what negging is? Is it suppose to be a compliment but isn’t?
oldtruck Posted February 17, 2019 Posted February 17, 2019 Dirty old man hitting on a young woman that he finds attractive. No more, no less. SOP (standard operating procedure, for you youngsters) to find a way to start a conversation besides asking the time, off hand weather comment.
Redhead14 Posted February 17, 2019 Posted February 17, 2019 That’s what I was wondering. Is it an insult or was he hitting on me? Both . . . how old is this guy? And, how old are you?
preraph Posted February 17, 2019 Posted February 17, 2019 He didn't mean anything by that at all. Just validating that skin breakouts aren't sexy. That doesn't mean he otherwise thinks you're sexy at all.
Author Pink86 Posted February 17, 2019 Author Posted February 17, 2019 I am 32 and I’m not sure his age but I’d say prob mid 50s. I always have the old dudes hitting on me. Lol 1
Olivia_daviss Posted February 17, 2019 Posted February 17, 2019 Why are you letting some 50 year old pervert come near you tell him to leave you alone
Redhead14 Posted February 17, 2019 Posted February 17, 2019 I am 32 and I’m not sure his age but I’d say prob mid 50s. I always have the old dudes hitting on me. Lol I kinda thought he might be a bit older. The term "sex appeal" isn't a term I've heard much nowadays -- a little archaic
Author Pink86 Posted February 17, 2019 Author Posted February 17, 2019 Well that explains his age then. I don’t “go” by him. He comes to talk to me. Lol just windering what his comment meant? Didn’t know if he was flirting or insulting me.
caveman621 Posted February 19, 2019 Posted February 19, 2019 Is this somebody you know? Or a total stranger on the street? Skeevy old man is probably the answer.
Author Pink86 Posted February 20, 2019 Author Posted February 20, 2019 It is someone I know. Have known for 5 years off and on but he has only been an aquaintance.
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