Logo Posted February 17, 2019 Posted February 17, 2019 I'm finding myself in a bizarro world where I can't tell the difference between whether I'm interested in someone just for the sake of being with someone because I'm lonely or need the affection and companionship or because I'm actually interested in the person. I think I've answered my own question, maybe. Maybe when you meet the right person you feel like they are the center, they are the interest, not everything I have listed above, companionship etc. Am I supposed to know this from the first date? Does it take a couple of dates? Some people are shy. It takes them a while to open up. But if they're shy, maybe they're not for me. Come to think of it, the only time I felt excited about a person, and experienced a natural high, was once. I liked her personality. But that natural high didn't last, unfortunately. The mask came off after a few months, after I got to know her better. I'm not sure anymore.
Mr. Lucky Posted February 17, 2019 Posted February 17, 2019 Logo, the best poker players I know rarely play aggressively in the early stages of the game. They take their time, watch carefully and look for patterns that tell them how a person is likely to act in the future. You seems motivated to "know" early on, not sure it works that way. And this self-imposed pressure also serves to undermine your enjoyment of the journey - you can still have fun with someone even if she turns out not to be your life partner, right? So no, I wouldn't waste time with rude, flakey or needy people. But that sure seems to leave a pretty deep and wide pool... Mr. Lucky
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