Strom23 Posted February 24, 2019 Share Posted February 24, 2019 Actually we met online then we connected so much that we would talk each and everything unintentionally it started as love but twist is she left her Ex boyfriend for me she told me she loves me so much and i love her soo much she's my first love we were from different cities i used to go meet her from long distance. So i went this time to meet her she was dull i asked what happened cause everything was good in phone call like we used to love each other do much till i met her once she started saying i Don't love you at all i played with you i cannot forget my ex ever even after trying so hard she says it was a attraction she says she love her ex so much i asked why she left her ex for me her reply is she loved me so much but not now suddenly from few days she started loving her ex i asked would you go back to her ex her answer is no she says she wants to be single she's not getting feelings for me for few days and missing her ex my heart is broken i loved her so much I can't lose her i cried i tried to convince her she's saying i want to be single and asks me how her ex would feel when she left him for me!! Her ex got another girl she's so jealous of it in the end she says i Don't love you but i care about you let's be bestfriends what am i supposed to do? She was my first love i loved her she's like nothing happened at all she's happy now i still love her badly feels like i can't live without her what should i do? Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted February 24, 2019 Share Posted February 24, 2019 First loves are very intense because it's all new. Do realize that you can live without her. You lived your whole life without her before you met. Remember that you loved her so you are capable of love. First loves are rarely lasting loves. A new relationship is in your future. Going forward learn a very important lesson -- people who tell you that they love you before meeting or even after only a few dates are lying. They have no meaningful idea of what it means to be in love. It's infatuation. For now, it's OK to be sad. Take some time & grieve but not too much. You still have to go to school or work. Purge: get rid of mementos, photos, trinkets etc. Delete off your phone & all social media. Move: exercise, go outside. Clean your house. Just keep busy. Also surround yourself with supportive friends & family. In time you will heal. Link to post Share on other sites
Marc878 Posted February 24, 2019 Share Posted February 24, 2019 Just because you love her doesn't mean she loves you. Stop projecting your feelings onto her. You'll be fine Link to post Share on other sites
Author Strom23 Posted February 25, 2019 Author Share Posted February 25, 2019 Now i blocked her everywhere, she's calling me again. Should i unblock her? Link to post Share on other sites
ExpatInItaly Posted February 25, 2019 Share Posted February 25, 2019 Now i blocked her everywhere, she's calling me again. Should i unblock her? How is she calling you if you have blocked her? And no, there is no point unblocking her. There is no future with a girl like this. Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted February 25, 2019 Share Posted February 25, 2019 Now i blocked her everywhere, she's calling me again. Should i unblock her? If you blocked her, how do you know she's calling? If you talk to her, what is going to happen? If you take her back, do you really think she won't do another 180 & leave again just as quickly? I don't think you can trust her. She is probably only calling because you stopped chasing & she's not getting her daily ego boost. Link to post Share on other sites
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